Free Sex Secrets of an American Geisha by Py Kim Conant Page B

proper consid eration for both your Geisha Attractiveness and classy behavior:
     
     
You reveal your best weight and your toned thighs with a black miniskirt (key to classy: not too short).
You wear a traditional business suit to work, with the hem four inches above the knee (key to classy: not eight inches above the knee, and custom-tailored to flatter your body).
You go braless in a classic button-front white shirt (key to classy: not too many buttons undone).
At a party, your neckline plunges practically to your navel (key to classy: nonchalant confidence, yet awareness of maintaining good posture).
At a party or dance you wear a Wonderbra to enhance your décol letage (key to classy: not too many shirt buttons undone, and your breasts do not look scrunched together under enormous pressure).
You wear Brazilian-cut, hip-hugging jeans and a cut-off T-shirt (key to classy: the jeans are not so low-cut that your backside looks like that of a plumber fixing the garbage disposal unit under the kitchen sink).
Remember, classiness isn’t just about how you dress. You can pick any of the items from the list of what my respondents found feminine and sexy and imagine for yourself how they can come across in a classy (or unclassy) way. Classiness is a concept that each of us, dear Younger Sister, will define somewhat differently, according to our backgrounds and experiences. Whatever your definition of “classy” might be, your Older Sister is sug gesting that as you seek to increase your beauty, femininity, and sexiness— in sum, your Geisha Attractiveness—always keep in mind, as the Asian Geisha must, the image you project to prospective Good Men. Remember that the image should always be that of a classy Good Woman.
     
Finding the Time and Money for Beauty
and Sexy Femininity
You must depend on your great desire for sexuality, love, and marriage as your basic motivation to find the time and money to implement your plan to be more beautiful and feminine (much as that same motivation will pro vide the energy behind your success with your weight and exercise plan; more on that topic in Chapter 9). However, just to stimulate your creativity, below are two short lists of ideas for finding time and money to devote to the further development of your beauty and femininity.
I must anticipate that you may find some of your Older Sister’s sugges tions a bit bizarre. For instance, I suggest perhaps spending less time with friends and family. I do not mean to devalue either friends (especially your wonderful girlfriends) or family, but only to suggest that sometimes we women can make the mistake of spending inordinate amounts of time hanging out with friends and family when we say we want love and mar riage. In effect we are substituting friends or family (or both) for working on ourselves—on increasing our beauty and femininity—and we risk aban doning our highest priority (love and marriage).
As you examine and add to these lists, your Older Sister would simply ask you to consider whether different parts of your current routine really serve you well in pursuing your highest priorities. Keep those activities that give you good feelings, that bring you wholeness, and that make you a con fident, relaxed, well-rounded person. See if you can eliminate or cut back on time-wasting activities.
     
To save time:
     
     
Get a less-demanding job. (I’m serious. If sexuality, love, and mar riage to a Good Man are your highest priority for happiness, do not let an overly demanding job or career take your focus, time, and energy to the extent that it gets in the way of achieving those goals. Don’t let work substitute for love.)
Spend less time cooking and eating. (Gourmet meals are not a good substitute for love either.)
Spend less time sleeping (eight hours maximum).
Spend less time with friends/family.
Spend less time on dates with inappropriate men. (Spend time with Good Men instead.)
Spend less time on the phone. (Even unplug the phone