She doesnât know it yet, but sheâs about to be inducted as a full member of the Cobbled Court Quilt Circle, with all the rights and privileges herein.â
âRights and privileges? Such as?â
âSuch as having Uncle Franklin babysit Bethany and Bobby on Friday nights so she can have an evening out with the girls and do some quilting. At least, thatâs what they say they do up there. Iâm not convinced thereâs as much quilting as gabbing going on.â
âAbigail talked you into babysitting Ivyâs kids every Friday night? Wow. Youâre either the nicest guy or the biggest sucker in the world, you know that?â
Franklinâs eyes twinkled as he gave Abigail a glance. âMy boy, you donât know the half of it. Why donât you come to Ivyâs with me? We can make peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, play Candy Land, and I can tell you about the price of loving a beautiful woman.â
Franklin put his arm across Garrettâs shoulders and, like Rick and Louis in the final scene in Casablanca, the two men walked out into the shadowy evening and into the beginning of a beautiful friendship.
I closed the door. Liza laughed. âWhat do you want to bet that Ivy comes home tonight to find those two passed out on the sofa asleep, with their fingernails painted red, and the kids still awake, watching TV and eating chocolate ice cream out of the container?â
âI wouldnât want to give you odds on it,â I said, âbut thatâs all right, chocolate washes out.â I locked the door of the shop.
âLadies, letâs call this meeting to order. Itâs time to welcome a new quilter into our ranks.â
The word âmeetingâ projects a much more formal, organized gathering than the reality of the weekly gathering of the Cobbled Court Quilt Circle. Thatâs not to say that those kinds of groups donât exist; there are quilt circles and guilds that have roll calls and rosters, agendas and officers, guest books and guest speakers. Over the years and in various locations, Iâve belonged to such groups and enjoyed them.
But our little circle is as much about companionship as it is about learning the oldest, or latest, or fastest quilting techniques, probably more so.
The Cobbled Court Quilt Circle has just four members: Margot, Abigail, Liza, and me. I started it as a means of thanking the others for supporting me through my breast cancer treatment, but in the end I think Iâve gotten as much out of it as they have.
These Friday evenings are a welcome break at the end of a long week, something we all look forward to; a safe, private space where we can talk, or laugh, or cry with friends or, if quiet is what we are most craving, just sit and focus our attention on the quilting, working in companionable silence with people who know our stories and understand our stillness. Sometimes our meetings are peaceful and calm, marked by low voices, the metallic snip of scissors, and the soft whir of sewing machines. Other nights they are punctuated by raucous, uncontrollable laughter, and the giddy sound of female voices interrupting one another, jockeying to take over the role of narrator for a story they canât wait to tell.
I love Friday nights.
When I was going through my cancer battle, those few hours on Friday were the only times I really felt like myself. For that thin slice of the week, I forgot about the disease that had invaded my body, or if I couldnât forget about it, at least lived with it, embraced by the warmth of good women whose kindness and determination to see me through my darkest hours gave me hope that, one way or another, everything would be all right. And, in the end, it was. Not that I donât still need them, or they me. The scars of my surgery have faded considerably but not completely, and the others all carry their own kinds of scars, healing at their own, individual rates. Thatâs