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Authors: Eve Kingsley
can feel free to make her blow him any old time it pleases him.
Another tactic is to give her the order during foreplay. This is particularly powerful if he has worked her into quite a lather first. It’s a sign of, hey, my pleasure comes first (no pun intended).
Yet another time is during intercourse, after she has come. Making her taste her own juices is an aggressive action. (Obvious note here: this is not to be done if there has been any anal sex!)
No matter when or how you choose to approach the blowjob, dirty talk is a huge part of it. Again, this should be something agreed upon by the both of you. She’s already being submissive by giving the blowjob, and that has been amplified by the fact that he has instructed her to do it. Some girls will get an extra kick out of the man ratcheting up the submission angle; others will draw the line and blowjobs on demand, and leave it at that.
Another point here is that there are physical possibilities when wanting to highlight the assertiveness aspect of the blowjob. Let me beat a dead horse here and say that yes, again, this is something that should be worked out beforehand.
He can force her head down onto his penis. Using both hands, he can dictate the rhythm. He can pull her hair back to be able to see better, or simply pull it to show his pleasure. He can stand, or sit on the edge of the bed, and make her kneel in front of him.
In a particularly aggressive move, he can have her on her back, and thrust into her mouth. This is good for switching it up with tit-fucking, if that is something that floats your boats. Be careful with the gag reflex in this position, however.
He can also ask that she dress a certain way, or be completely naked, or just wear sexy heels, or whatever makes it more about his pleasure.
PLEASURABLE, ROUGH INTERCOURSE
Yes! Now we’re talking. Enough with the foreplay; let’s get into the action! In this section, we’ll talk about all the ways men can be more assertive while having sex. Finally!
Just a note for those of you who skipped directly to this section: don’t . Go back and read the entire book. There is a lot going on when this powerful male-female dynamic is exercised, and if you don’t understand it all, someone’s going to get hurt. Maybe not physically, but definitely emotionally. Please be smart, communicate, and make sure your relationship outside the bedroom is healthy, happy and solid as a rock.
OK, OK, I’ve lectured enough. Let’s get it on.
Assertive Positions
Obviously, having the woman be on top is not the height of male assertiveness. If she’s riding him like a cowgirl, it has become all about her, and that’s not what we’re talking about here, are we?
However, there are some ways to assert authority while the woman is in this position. For starters, he should be grabbing onto her hips, and making her match her movements to his own. He should be dictating the rhythm; if she tries to change it, his grasp should get stronger.
Also in this position, rough breast play is a good assertive action. Or, have her come down to him, and suck, twist and nibble on her breasts.
By incorporating dirty talk into this position, however, she can be left to her own devices, so to speak, while he talks about how much of a slut she is for taking pleasure in it, how much she loves to ride that big hard cock, etc.
Just as obviously, however, the man being on top is by far the more aggressive stance when having sex. But this position, called the Missionary position, has been the death of so many relationships … death by sexual boredom. So, let’s talk about how to roughen it up around the edges a bit, and make it be all about the alpha male conquering his woman.
The Missionary position can be manipulated in a variety of ways that shows her who’s boss. They include:
Her legs up over his shoulders; him kneeling up a little and thrusting in hard. This
Another tactic is to give her the order during foreplay. This is particularly powerful if he has worked her into quite a lather first. It’s a sign of, hey, my pleasure comes first (no pun intended).
Yet another time is during intercourse, after she has come. Making her taste her own juices is an aggressive action. (Obvious note here: this is not to be done if there has been any anal sex!)
No matter when or how you choose to approach the blowjob, dirty talk is a huge part of it. Again, this should be something agreed upon by the both of you. She’s already being submissive by giving the blowjob, and that has been amplified by the fact that he has instructed her to do it. Some girls will get an extra kick out of the man ratcheting up the submission angle; others will draw the line and blowjobs on demand, and leave it at that.
Another point here is that there are physical possibilities when wanting to highlight the assertiveness aspect of the blowjob. Let me beat a dead horse here and say that yes, again, this is something that should be worked out beforehand.
He can force her head down onto his penis. Using both hands, he can dictate the rhythm. He can pull her hair back to be able to see better, or simply pull it to show his pleasure. He can stand, or sit on the edge of the bed, and make her kneel in front of him.
In a particularly aggressive move, he can have her on her back, and thrust into her mouth. This is good for switching it up with tit-fucking, if that is something that floats your boats. Be careful with the gag reflex in this position, however.
He can also ask that she dress a certain way, or be completely naked, or just wear sexy heels, or whatever makes it more about his pleasure.
PLEASURABLE, ROUGH INTERCOURSE
Yes! Now we’re talking. Enough with the foreplay; let’s get into the action! In this section, we’ll talk about all the ways men can be more assertive while having sex. Finally!
Just a note for those of you who skipped directly to this section: don’t . Go back and read the entire book. There is a lot going on when this powerful male-female dynamic is exercised, and if you don’t understand it all, someone’s going to get hurt. Maybe not physically, but definitely emotionally. Please be smart, communicate, and make sure your relationship outside the bedroom is healthy, happy and solid as a rock.
OK, OK, I’ve lectured enough. Let’s get it on.
Assertive Positions
Obviously, having the woman be on top is not the height of male assertiveness. If she’s riding him like a cowgirl, it has become all about her, and that’s not what we’re talking about here, are we?
However, there are some ways to assert authority while the woman is in this position. For starters, he should be grabbing onto her hips, and making her match her movements to his own. He should be dictating the rhythm; if she tries to change it, his grasp should get stronger.
Also in this position, rough breast play is a good assertive action. Or, have her come down to him, and suck, twist and nibble on her breasts.
By incorporating dirty talk into this position, however, she can be left to her own devices, so to speak, while he talks about how much of a slut she is for taking pleasure in it, how much she loves to ride that big hard cock, etc.
Just as obviously, however, the man being on top is by far the more aggressive stance when having sex. But this position, called the Missionary position, has been the death of so many relationships … death by sexual boredom. So, let’s talk about how to roughen it up around the edges a bit, and make it be all about the alpha male conquering his woman.
The Missionary position can be manipulated in a variety of ways that shows her who’s boss. They include:
Her legs up over his shoulders; him kneeling up a little and thrusting in hard. This
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