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times when you reclined together on a couch, or fed one another (geishas do this still). Some people enjoy food-and-sexgames (ice cream on the skin, grapes in the pussy, and so on), which are great for regressive orality, but messy for an ordinary domestic setting; take care too with sugary foods, which can causeyeast infections, and oily foods, which can shredcondoms. Most lovers with privacy like to eat naked together and take it from there.

dancing

    dancing
    good lovers dance well together
    All dancing in pairs looks towards intercourse. In this respect the Puritans were absolutely right. The development of no-contact dances has come about because one doesn’t now need a social excuse to embrace, but as an excitant it need not involve contact at all – in fact, most dancing today is far more erotic than a clinch because you aren’t too close to see one another. At its best, this sort of dance is simply intercourse byremote control ( see remote control ).
    Most good lovers dance well together. You can do it publicly or in private, clothed or naked. Stripping one another while dancing is a sensation on its own. Don’t hurry to full intercourse – dance until his erection is unbearable and she is almost coming, brought there by rhythm and the sight and perfume of each other alone. Even then you need not stop.
    Most couples can insert and continue dancing, either in each other’s arms or limbo-style, linked only by the penis, provided they are the appropriate heights. Unfortunately, this means that the woman needs to be at least as tall as the man, while as a rule she is going to be shorter. Otherwise, he has to bend his knees, which is tiring. If you can’t dance inserted, and if she is small, pick her up into one of the Hindu standing positions, legs around waist, arms around neck, and continue in this way. If she is too heavy to pick up, you can turn her and take her stooping from behind, still keeping the dance going.
    Seduction, or encouragement, while dancing is a natural. In the days of formal dancing, one wished that the woman had her breasts on her back, where one could reach them, but that would have made it too easy. Gentle pressure, rhythm, sight and scent, and a knowledge of remote-control methods are all that’s needed to bring the dance on to its erotic conclusion.

femoral intercourse
    Another dodge, like clothed intercourse , to preserve virginity, avoid pregnancy, and so on, used in past cultures that cared about virginity and had no contraceptives, or in present cultures that adviseabstinence before marriage. Comes for us under the heading of substitutes.
    Used from before or behind, or in any other posture where she can press her thighs together. The penis goes between them, with the shaft between her labia but the glans well clear of the vagina, and she presses hard. Gives the woman a special set of sensations – sometimes keener than on penetration, so worth trying. Givencondoms and other forms ofbirth control, andsafe sex, one need not be so rigid about technique as were our forefathers,

clothed intercourse

    clothed intercourse
    all the movements of straight intercourse
    Not reliable as acontraceptive or protective unless the ejaculation position is fully interfemoral; that is, with the glans well clear of the vulva, cloth or no cloth. Some people like this either as a starter or duringmenstrual periods. Inclined to be “dry” and make the man sore if it goes on too long or involves starched material of the sort denim jeans are made – go gently. Many women can get a fair orgasm from it.

safe sex
    We are, thankfully, past the point whereHIV is an automatic death sentence. However, in some parts of the world it still is a death sentence, and worldwide,sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) are at an all-time high. This is no time to be careless.
    The threats are many.Gonorrhea andsyphilis are still with us, and the former is getting harder to eradicate because of resistant strains.