stepfatherâ something they need to know, that a âvery first dadâ looms large in his psyche. Like God in his heart, to quote the poem, a revelation from the depths of this boyâs soul.
There are no prescriptions, no set of rules that will produce a poem like this; no workshop could teach a method that would replicate exactly what went on between me and the students in that room. But I have some idea as to how and why it happened. A teacher once told me that having an artist come to her classroom was like letting a cat inâand Iâll risk a bad pun by saying that I think itâs more like dropping a catalyst into a chemical solution in order to stimulate a reaction.
What is happening in that classroom, when the poet acts as a catalyst? Well, first of all, before I ask students to write, we always have a long discussion about rules. I tell them that for this adventure of writing poetry, we can suspend many of the normal rules for English class. No, you donât have to write within the margins; no, you donât have to look a word up in the dictionary to make sure youâre spelling it rightâweâll do that later. For now just write the word the way you think itâs spelled so you donât interrupt the flow of writing; you can print or use cursive (thatâs a big issue in third grade); you can doodle on your paper; you can scratch things out (here I show them my own rough drafts, so they can see that I mean it); you can write anonymously or even make up a name for yourself as a poet.
If youâre really stuck, I tell them, you can collaborate and work on a poem with someone else whoâs also stuck. This means you can talk in the classroom, so long as you donât disturb your neighbor. As weâre working, I often have to reassure a student that itâs all right not to finish a poem if you really canât. You can let it sit for a while and maybe come back to it, or maybe not. And if you really get carried away by an assignment, itâs all right not to go on to my next oneâjust keep going with what youâre doing, take your time. (Often, by this time the students are looking at me gratefully but a bit warily, wondering if theyâve fallen into the hands of a lunatic.)
We talk about the ways this kind of writing differs from learning spelling or math, where there are right and wrong answers. I tell the kids that in what weâll be doing, there is no one right answer, not even a right way or wrong way to do it. And if, in a particular writing assignment, I do suggest some rules to follow, I always say, if you can think of a way to break these rules and still come out with a really good poemâgo right ahead. I see this as a way to get beyond paying lip service to childrenâs creativity and encouraging them to practice it. By now the good students may be feeling lost. Theyâre often kids who have beaten the system, who have become experts at following the rules in order to get a good grade. And now, maybe for the first time, theyâre experiencing helplessness at school, because the boundaries have shifted; without rules to follow, theyâre not sure how to proceed. They may sulk, or even cry, although they usually come around and have a good time.
But itâs the other students, the bad students, the little criminals, who often have a form of intelligence that is not much rewarded in school, who are listening most attentively. Itâs these kids, for whom helplessness and frustration are the norm at school, and often in lifeâmaybe their momâs boyfriend got drunk and abusive the night beforeâwho take to poetry like ducklings to water. And sometimes, as with that fifth-grade boy, they find that adopting a poetic voice can be a revelation. Itâs as if theyâre free to speak with their true voice for the very first time. It is always a giftâto the teacher, the class, and to meâto have a child lead