remember that nimrod you dumped for Chrisâwhat was his name? Werner? Weimaraner? No . . . Wyatt! Thatâs it! Thatâs a stuuuuupid name. âMember Weimaraner liked anagrams? He was like, âFoster Bancroft, your anagram is Barf Cotton Serf!â Dude, no one wants to be seated next to
that
at Thanksgiving dinner for the next forty years, am I right?â
He looks out at the guests, and those who met Wyatt are nodding their heads. Serious, sincere Wyatt did ramble on about the hidden wisdom in anagrams. Sure, I was interested at first to learn that âthe hospital ambulanceâ was an anagram for âa cab, I hustleto help manâ and that â
New York Times
â could translate to âmonkeys write,â but even with my love of quoting stats, the anagram game got real boring real quick. I had a lot of trouble maintaining a straight face the day he told Patrick (Walsh) that his anagram was Watch Irk Slap, to which Patrick deadpanned, âYou must be psychic, because you just predicted our future together.â
Foster continues. âBut you, Chris, you kinda challenge her. You make her leave her comfort zone. Because of you, sheâs gonna have, like,
adventures
. Her lifeâs not gonna be all mapped out and shit. Together, the sum of your wholes adds up to more than one hundred and forty-six and a half percent. You guys prove sometimes you have to go with whatâs best for your heart and not what makes the most sense in your head. And thatâs pretty badass. So congratulations, Penny Candy, drink up, and can you introduce me to your friend Judith because she is The Hotness! Whoa, hey, donât take my mic. Oh, okay, itâs your turn? Sâup, Karin? If it doesnât work out with Judith, you can tell me what time it is, giiiiirl!â
Karin practically shoves Foster out of the way. âHi, everyone! Iâm Karin, the maid of honor, and, um, Miguel, weâre going to need some coffee over here, please?â She points at Foster, who turns around in his chair to see if sheâs motioning toward someone behind him. Miguel swoops in and collects all the liquor within armâs reach so deftly that Foster doesnât realize whatâs happened.
Fosterâs almost as straitlaced as I am, which is why his performance tonight is so hilarious. Truly, I believe heâs power-drinking out of empathy for me, having witnessed Marjorieâs micromanagement firsthand. This week has been particularly tough after four trying months. From the moment Chris proposed, sheâs second-guessed every single one of my premarital decisions, to the pointthat I completely abdicated having preferences and simply started asking what
she
wanted.
Nothing here tonight is what I envisioned. Not a damn thing. I wanted simple and easy, intimate and personal, maybe a tea-length ivory satin gown and a corona of braids with a flower tucked behind my ear. A justice of the peace or a judge. A dinner with family and a few friends.
Instead, I got fussy and complicated and overly formal. While I canât deny Iâm thrilled to be married and the reception is more fun than anticipated, I wish Iâd had some control over the elements that felt important to me. Namely, I loathe my muttonchop-sleeved dress with the sheer, deep V of lace in the front that rises up into an odd sort of turtleneck with a million buttons down the back. Iâm exactly as sexy as a rack of lamb right now.
I feel silly with my hair in this ridiculous Alexis-Colby-from-
Dynasty
-inspired updo, a massive pompadour of tight, sticky curls bisected with a stiff twist of tulle that juts so far out it bumped against the back window in the limo on the way over here.
I hate how the salmon with citrus aioli served on risotto makes the ballroom smell like a dirty aquarium. No one in the immediate family even
likes
salmonâwe only offered it as a choice because Marjorie wanted to up the elegance