word, right? In your rhetoric notebook, folded among the notes you took in class that you canât read because of your atrocious handwriting, you discover the document. Kimmie takes it, runs her finger down it to find Mondayâs due date. Okay, easy-peasy . You get to pick your own topic. Basically all you have to do is make a statement about something that matters to you, and then argue a case that itâs true. Something that matters to me? Yeah, something that matters to you. Uch , you say out loud. You have no idea what matters to you, especially not after nine beers and three hits off Kimmieâs pipe, which you now notice is shaped like a nude man with a tiny bowl acting as his erect penis. Whoa.
Kimmie begs you to go out with her after your pre-buzz is fully on, one more hit before she goes, paired with another room-temperature beer that hasnât had time to chill in the mini-fridge. Youâre not going to get any work done now , she says. Itâs ten oâclock already . You say I have to fry . Kimmie falls over laughing. You said you have to fry! No I didnât, I said âtryâ! Whatever, are you coming, or not? No, I have to figure out what matters to me.
Your roommate exits laughing; you werenât meaning to be funny. You honestly do not know what matters to you. Being drunk and stoned at the moment doesnât help, but stone-cold sober the question would be no less existential. You climb up to your bed, the top bunk, with your notebook and a pen. Youopen the notebook to a blank page, write âWhat Matters to Meâ across the top, with a number one below it on the left-hand side of the page. Nothing comes to mind, so you write a two below the one, then a three below that. You could just put the stupid pen down on the paper and scribble, maybe it would come to you that way, but it seems too important to just write any old thing down, âpeace on earthâ or whatever. Stuff like that matters to everyone, doesnât it? What matters to you ? Right now you canât even remember what interests you. You write down âMatter,â next to the first number. Now youâre on to something. Next to number two you write âWhat is matter?â Then you cross that out. âWhat is the matter?â Thatâs not right either. What the fuck does matter to you? You care about things. You want the people in your life to be well and happy. Youâve always liked writing, but does that matter ? Could that be a thing that matters? You know that whatever matters to your mom, you donât want to matter to youâheaven forbid. That made sense when you thought it a second ago. Oh yeah, right, because youâd be engaged right now if that were the case; forget that there are no viable candidates just yet, at least you have the good sense to know that if you canât even figure out what matters to you, even the best candidate would end in disaster. Then again, you donât want to do the opposite of what your mom did either, because she always told you she did the opposite of what her parents did. If you do the opposite of the opposite, is that the same as doing the same? You could just relax, maybe experiment a little. But thatâs not really your thing, not the experimenting, definitely not the relaxing. You want a boyfriend; you sometimes think a boyfriend would be not so much what mattered to you most, but the thing that would cease your cosmic loneliness long enough for you to figure out what mattered to you mostâbecause the truth is, boys do take up a lot of space in your head, even if it is usually just one at a time.
Another beer will probably help. You climb down off the bunk; your foot gets stuck between the bars toward the bottom. You fall backwardâno bigâyou get up, grab a beer, but suddenly popping open a beer is physically demanding, your right hand doesnât have the strength to pop the tab and your left hand is made of