human, a better form of socialism, because we were squeezed between the East and the West. Our country was described as a salon, or entry-chamber of Communism. Thatâs how the West spoke about us. For a long time I thought that Yugoslavia could serve as a model for the establishment of European union, for connecting the countries within Europe some time in the future,â said Mira. âI hoped to write a lot, and have beautiful children. Also, I hoped for a lot of friends, and to have an open home that would always be filled with people. And as far as I was concerned, that was the case.â
In Pozarevac, Milosevicâs mother Stanislava had few visits from friends or family. She became increasingly depressed until, in 1974, she hanged herself at the family home, at the age of sixty-two. She had been passed over for a promotion at the school where she taught, and it is possible that her fractured marriage, and the departure of Slobodan and Borislav, had counted against her. âStanislava was a very ambitious Communist, and she was in line for a promotion. But in the end she did not get it, and one reason was that she had been left alone, with no husband and no sons living with her,â said Dusan Mitevic. 5
Although Stanislava had long been separated from her husband Svetozar, his suicide ten years earlier had also profoundly affected her. She spent much time reading, but her eyesight began to fade. Milosevic rarely visited. Just as with Ivan Stambolic, Mira was jealous of Milosevic having any other close emotional ties. âPeople who know them say that when Stanislava went to visit Slobo in Belgrade, Mira left the apartment the minute Stanislava stepped inside,â said Milica Kovac. 6
The death of his mother was one of the few occasions when Milosevic is known to have shown emotion. According to Ljubica Markovic, Miraâs half-sister, Slobodan blamed himself for her suicide. âMy mother later told me that Slobodan was completely upset, and said he was guilty, that he didnât go to visit her enough, she was lonely, that he should have given her more time.â 7 Apparently Miraâs response to the news that Stanislava had committed suicide, and to her husbandâs grief and self-recrimination, was icier. âMy mother told me that Mira told Slobodan to put it out of his head, that it was nothing to do with him, and that it was his motherâs decision,â said Ljubica. Mira herself said she had nothing but praise for her mother-in-law. âIt was terrible for Slobodan when she died, because she was his mother. She had some heart trouble, but she was not very old. She was still active in school. She was a proud and modest woman, who was very diligent and dedicated to her sons. A brave person and a serious one. I had and still have the best opinion of her.â
The following year, Yugoslavia ratified a new constitution, which was to have a major effect on the course of Yugoslav history. The class struggle was fading, and the nationalist one was stirring. At this time, the very notion of what Yugoslavia actually meant was changing. The anger and resentment the 1974 constitution provoked among Serb nationalists later helped fuel Milosevicâs rise to power. It also accelerated the decentralisation of Yugoslavia and the subsequent weakening of the federal power structure. It encouraged the competing nationalists in each republic to press for an ever larger slice of the federal cake. Arguably, it heralded the break-up of Yugoslavia itself.
Under the 1974 constitution Yugoslavia remained a federal state composed of six republics â Serbia, Croatia, Bosnia-Herzegovina, Slovenia, Macedonia and Montenegro â and two autonomous provinces within Serbia: Kosovo in the south and Voivodina in the north. But it devolved further power away from the centre, that is the federal capital Belgrade, to the six republics and the two provinces. Each of these hadits own Communist Party,