to know the depth of his pain and loss. He needed someone who could remind him of the person he was before he met Hezekiah, because he had forgotten. He couldnât recall what his face looked like when he smiled. He didnât remember what his laugh sounded like or what his life was before the cloud of grief had descended and enveloped his entire world.
Kay interrupted the silence. âAre you still there, Danny?â
Danny began to cry. Kay was the first person to hear Dannyâs sorrow since Hezekiahâs death. He had isolated himself and didnât allow anyone close enough to hear him cry. At work he behaved as if everyone elseâs problems were much greater than his own. No one knew of his loss. No one knew of his pain.
âItâs okay, Danny. Let it out. Iâm here for you, baby. Iâm here,â Kay said through her own tears.
Their combined sobs served as words for the next five minutes. Danny curled into a tight ball on his couch and cried with the phone clutched to his ear. His chest heaved as he gasped for air between deep wails. He needed someone to hear him cry, to acknowledge his pain, and to recognize his sorrow. Until that moment his loss didnât seem real. It was as if he were suspended in a dream.
âIf a man cries alone, does he make a sound?â he had written in his journal one evening, while lamenting alone.
He does not, the scribe continued.
In the absence of sound, pain runs deeper.
When there is no shoulder to cry on,
the chill of sorrow is colder.
The weight of grief more unbearable.
If no one is there to share your loss.
The pain must live with you and you alone.
As their weeping gradually faded into sputtering breaths, Kay spoke. âDanny, I donât want you to be there alone. Iâm coming home on the earliest flight I can get tomorrow.â
âThatâs not necessary, Kay. Iâll be all right.â
âI know youâll be all right. Thatâs not the point. We need our friends with us at times like this, and I am your friend.â
Danny needed her desperately, but he continued, âYouâre busy, Kay. My mother is only ten minutes away. I can call her if I need to.â
âDoes your mother know about Hezekiah?â
Danny paused before answering. âNo.â
âDo you plan on telling her?â Kay asked in the tone of a woman who knew.
âNo. She would never understand. I know my mother loves me, but I couldnât risk her abandoning me the way youââ
âI didnât abandon you, Danny.â
âBullshit, Kay,â Danny said bitterly. âYou didnât call me for months. You made me feel like our friendship all these years was a lie. That there were rules and limits you never bothered to tell me about. I donât want to take that chance with my mother.â
âYour mother loves you so much, Danny. I donât think thereâs anything you could do or say that would change that.â
âIâm not sure if thatâs true. She has her own preconceived idea of who I am. Anything that deviates from that and sheâs not interested.â Danny sighed into the receiver. âLook at what happened when I thought you would never leave me. Our friendship was the one thing I thought I could count on, no matter what. But I was wrong.â
âI deserve every horrible thing you have to say to me. There is no excuse for the way I reacted. All I can say is, I hope you can forgive me. You mean the world to me, and it hurts me to see you suffer alone like this.â
Danny wanted to withhold his forgiveness, but it was impossible. He needed Kay in his life. âOur friendship is very important to me too.â
âDoes that mean you forgive me?â
Danny could hear a slight smile in her voice. He paused, not to decide if he could forgive Kay but rather to keep her in suspense for a moment longer. âOf course I forgive you,â he finally