both wearing rubber gloves, our arms elbow-deep in greasy suds, and Iâm wondering what my mother has in store for me if I leave a few spots on the glasses like our dishwasher.
âHow are those new friends of yours?â she asks while scouring the remains of some noodles that stuck to the bottom of a pot. âAre you going to invite them over again soon?â
âThey were practically just here,â I say. âAnd I told you, they arenât exactly friends. Weâre just doing a project together.â
âHow is the project going? Thereâs a great library nearby. You can get there on your bicycle.â
I put down the platter Iâve been rinsing and decide this is my moment. âActually,â I begin, turning to my mother, who has moved on to oiling a wok, âweâre going to be doing a different kind of research for our project. Weâre taking a class.â
My mother looks perplexed, but in a sort of angry way, as if confusion is a weakness that shouldnât be tolerated. âWhat do you mean taking a class? I thought the project was for one of the classes youâre already taking.â
âIt is,â I explain. âThe project is for social studies. But weâre going to do the research for it in a Saturday cooking class taught by a professional chef. It runs for six weeks, and weâll really learn a lot.â
âA cooking class? You? â my mother says with the same tone of disbelief sheâd use if I told her I was in the running for the Nobel Prize in science.
âI know Iâve never been that interested incooking, Mama, but this is a special kind of class. And itâs for an assignment.â
âWhy do you need to take a special class? If you girls want to learn to cook, you could just ask me. Iâve been trying to show you how to make jiÄozi for years! Your friends certainly cleaned their plates, they must have liked my cooking.â
âI know, Mama, they did. They loved the food you made. Everyone does. But this isnât a Chinese cooking class. Weâll be learning all about American foods, traditional American foods, and how immigrants from all over the world brought them here.â
âI see,â my mother says, squirting out another blob of oil. âAnd youâre doing this for a social studies class? Because cooking is an important part of American history?â
âYes,â I reply. âNo. I mean, I donât know.â I start spouting a bunch of things I think Mr. McEnroe would want to hear. âWe have to come up with some aspect of immigration that would cut across alldifferent groups. Some kind of âcommon thread,â our teacher said. This is perfect! And all immigrants carried cooking traditions from back home with them to America. Weâre going to learn about what foods were brought here by which immigrant groups, about how common things we eat all the time are really from all over the world. Weâre going to base our project on that idea and make, you know, posters and a report and stuff to go with it.â Actually, we havenât gotten as far as figuring out exactly what weâre going to do yet, but she doesnât need to know that. âMaybe weâll make a cookbook or something,â I add, a little lamely.
One thing you should know about my mother is that she doesnât use cookbooks. She learned to cook mostly by watching her own mother, my lÄo lÄo , and then just got better and better. Itâs like she has some kind of magical ability to know just what combination of ingredients will make something taste exactly the way she wants. There must be a hundred jars of dried herbs and smelly fermented fruits and vegetables inour cabinets, yet my mother can reach her hand in and find the one she needs without even looking. So itâs not exactly surprising that she feels pretty much the same way about cookbooks as she does about ordering