leaving London in four days would shatter the little trust she might still have in me.
And so the hours ticked on, and predictably I went to a pub quite a distance from Queensway and tried to drink away the picture of her by her phone that I was convinced was now planted in my mind forever.
Itâs odd what our brains choose to remember. I recall vividly the day when I had to make my decision, but not the next four. (The letter I remember verbatim because I took it with me back to the States, where I read it many more times over the years.) Those days all ran together in a blur of anxious tourism and alcohol, until eventually I was back in St. Louis, probably back in this pool again, too.
I thought it would be easier to stop thinking about her once I was home. I thought Iâd go back to mourning my father until that slowly lessened, while Paulette would vanish in a matter of weeks if not days. Instead, my memory of her (aided by her letter) made her more vivid, as if I were seeing her on a daily basis. Paradoxically, the main relief I got from Paulette was thinking about my father. It was as if he was still helping me out once again from his grave.
My thoughts are interrupted by a splashing fight thatâs broken out near me between two ten-year-old boys. They look somewhat alikeâmaybe theyâre brothersâand splash each other with equal ferocity. To get out of their range, I walk over to the kidsâpool, where the old men with their walkers sit dangling their toes in the water, their lifeguard hovering behind them. I sit on the ledge looking at them, at Grandfather Pool in his hot tub, then at the giant clock on the wall, where Iâm surprised itâs as late as it is in the afternoon.
After a few months it got much better about Paulette, and she might have become one of those occasional twinges of guilt we all learn to put up with but for another letter she suddenly sent me.
Dear Gerry,
Are you surprised to hear from me? It was much easier than I expected to get your address, but I did wrestle with the decision of whether to write to you or not and though a lot of me didnât want to, because of my conscience, I ultimately decided to write.
Your one-night stand with me had more consequences than you might imagine, at least for me. A few weeks after our time together I found out I was pregnant and then had to decide what to do about it. I thought of writing or calling you then, but since youâd already chosen not to contact me it seemed rather futile.
Ultimately, after much agonizing, I decided to have an abortion, which happened a few days ago. I guess Iâm not much of a Catholic after all. Iâm telling you this without expecting or wanting any kind of reply simply because I think people ought to know that they can create life when they do (in your case it was apparently quite easy), and ought to know when theyâre involved, albeit indirectly, in decisions involving what happens to that life. Anyway, I wonât bother you again. Iâve handled things very badly, although you did trick me along the way. Still, I hope one day you do find someone you can love and respect enough to marry and start a family of your own with. My church says, âChildrenare the meaning of life.â T. S. Eliot says, âWe had the experience but missed the meaning.â
Paulette
âSheâs lying, donât fall for it,â said Phil, whoâd originally advised me not to go to London.
âHow do you know that?â I said, waving the letter in my hand.
âAll right, I donât know it, but she probably never got pregnant, and anyway youâll never know one way or the other. It sounds like a scam to me to guilt some money out of you.â
âShe didnât ask for any money. Sheâs the most honest woman Iâve ever known.â
âThen why would she write you? It might make some sense to write when she was pregnant and didnât know
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