nodded quietly and we nodded quietly back.
âI donât think he likes migrants,â I told Nina.
âOn the contrary. Heâs friendly with our community because weâre migrants-through-the-front-door. He occasionally attends our events.â
Hornsbyâs Mall makeover was a complete mess, with only takeaway food. We ordered grilled fish and sat in the Florence Street promenade.
âArenât you scared racist people will treat you badly?â I asked Nina.
âNo. Australians are very friendly. Iâve heard of some racist ones. Perhaps Iâve unknowingly encountered some, but when you behave like a model citizen they wouldnât have any reason to express their leaning, would they now?â
She explained migrants-through-the-front-door meant the UN gave them priority due to the persecution against their religious community. In their homelands others attacked and killed them and theirs, while authorities watched. As they were an anti-violence community with the principle âLove for all. Hatred for noneâ, they peacefully left.
âThis is home now. Itâs no hardship to show gratitude to Australia.â
âIâm proud Australia assists the oppressed,â I offered. âBut some people look down on people they donât know, thinking the women are backward and oppressed by their men. They wouldnât know youâre very smart.â
âItâs no big deal. No one will think badly of me, except the low people. And no one will honour me, except the honourable.â
She further told me there were over 1100 ethnic-groups and over 700 active languages in Indonesia, which made me sad thinking of our vastly diminished Aboriginal languages.
Nina belonged to the Minang ethnic-group of West Sumatra, a strongly matriarchal people. For over a thousand years women had been the heads of families. Only daughters can inherit.
âHow cool! Iâve never heard of that before. Western suffragettes were only a hundred years ago. But who is persecuting the Minang people?â
âNo, I didnât explain it well. Minang is my ethnic group. But the one being persecuted is my religious group, Ahmadiyya. In Muslim countries weâre persecuted by other Muslims, the majority, who refuse to accept us as Muslims.â
âWhy?â
âMany issues. We donât believe in any form of violence.â
In her sect women received equal treatment to men, with most of the women highly educated. She had a cousin who was an actual rocket scientist in the literal sense of the word. No kidding.
Pete flashed his light when I floor-walked after lunch.
âThis guyâs yelling his lung out âcause his 178 is shockingly late,â he told me. âWhatâs happening?â
I checked with Ratko. He walked to Pete while calling Sydney Buses on the cordless phone.
âNo reported delay,â Ratko reported.
âWhaat?â
âSydney, thatâs what weâre told. Weâre under the obligation to tell customers exactly what weâre told.â
âBut Radio Room fired that out right away! They didnât check first!â
Ratko lifted his arms, giving up.
In helplessness I turned to Pete, who was watching me closely. We looked into each otherâs eyesâfeeling bad, guilty, very sorry for the caller. There was a shared understanding thereâ¦
Tuesday was my day off. I had asked our cleaner Vivian to come only every fortnight. Her pay came automatically from Mumâs bank-accountâMumâs way of showing me she cared.
âRent out some rooms to students,â Vivian suggested. âExtra money.â
âNo. The house isnât mine.â Mum earned a lot as the finance director of a multinational trading company, while Dad earned obscene pay with an American oil company in Indonesia. But the house still belonged to them.
âYou Aussies are particular,â she chided. âWe Asians never