else to say the mass.â¦â
âWell, yes,â Peg said. âAs a matter of fact, weâll want Father Hemesath to say the mass.â Father Gregory Hemesath of New Haven, a small town in Mitchell County, northern Iowa, was an old friend of the Mullensâ.
âThatâs just fine,â Father Shimon said. âYou write down whoever you want and Iâll ask them. Iâll bow out and wonât have any part in the, ah-h, funeral mass.â
âWeâll want music, too,â Gene said, pausing in mid-phone call. âMichael always liked good music.â
âWhenever we went to Kansas City,â Peg said, âif there was any good music being played, Michael would take us to hear it.â
âAs you know,â Father Shimon said, licking his lips, âour church doesnât have an organ.â¦â
âSo itâll be Sister Richard and the Don Bosco High School Chorus,â Peg said.
âOh, all right,â Father Shimon said, âthatâs fine. Thatâs just fine.â
âAnd Iâd like Father Hirsch to say a few words,â Peg said. Father Robert Hirsch was the principal of the Don Bosco High School in Gilbertville where all the Mullen children had gone. âAnd I want a White Funeral.â¦â
âI canât, Peg,â the priest said, shaking his head. âI canât have one.â
âWhy not?â
âBecause when the permission order came to change the service, each parish had to request the permission from the archdiocese.â¦â In the Black Funeral, the then-traditional Catholic mass, the priests wore black vestments. The mass mourned the departed, and its prayers were directed toward the salvation of the sinnerâs soul. In the White Funeral, which had only recently been introduced, the priests wore white vestments. The funeral service marked the deceasedâs entrance into eternal life. It was a celebration of the resurrection rather than a mass of mourning. âI didnât want the change,â Father Shimon told Peg, âso I ignored it.â
âThat doesnât matter,â Peg said, âAll youâve got to do is have it now. We had one only two months ago when that La Porte boy from the Jesup parish died in Vietnam.â
âNope. Nope. Nope,â Father Shimon said, âI canât do it.â
Peg regarded him coldly, then lowered her head and went back to work on her list.
After a moment, Father Shimon stood up. âWell,â he said, âI, ah-h, probably, ah-h, should be going.â
âFine, Father,â Peg said.
A few minutes later they heard the priestâs car driving away. Gene, off the telephone, came over to the kitchen table, too. There was nothing that they could do while waiting for the rest of the family to arrive but make a list of those friends who would want and need to know that which they themselves were still scarcely willing to accept: their son Michael was dead.
Chapter Five
The Mullensâ friends and neighbors, stunned by word of Michaelâs death, began arriving at the farm shortly after Father Shimon left. They were stricken, outraged, bewildered that this distant war in Vietnam, a war so wearying, so incomprehensibly foreign, so enduring, could somehow have taken Michaelâs life as it had claimed the life of that Jesup parish boy only two months before. The men wearing faded bib overalls, ankle-high work boots, day-glo orange earflapped vinyl caps, their mellow, weathered faces creased with sorrow, approached Gene shyly, hesitantly. Gently they touched him on the shoulder, laid their calloused hands almost tenderly across his back. Their wives, in woolen slacks and heavy hand-knit cardigans, brought baskets of food, stews and casseroles, pots of coffee which they set to simmer at the rear of the Mullensâ stove. And then they moved back to take Pegâs hands in their own, hugged her, kissed her lightly upon