of beads, shimmery white pearl and silver ones. They felt cool and good as they slipped through my fingers.
We gathered, clacking our beads in unison in the same kitchen where Dad had stabbed Mom. All of us thanked Jesus and the saints for sparing Mom and putting Pops behind bars.
One night, Pops tried to call Mom from jail, collect. What a jerk. Abuela answered and, of course, refused to accept the charges.
All three of us stared at each other. I expected Mom to fall apart, but she didnât. Instead, she was furious. She asked me to call the DAâs office and her caseworker, leaving messages on their services about what had just happened.
The next day, Popsâ phone privileges were revoked. Contacting the victim of his violent attack, or even trying to, was a crime in itself. We were told that he couldnât call anymore, but kept our answering machine on, always screening calls, just in case.
The one good thing about Momâs near-murder was that Pops was out of our lives. Heâd been tearing up our household and making us miserable ever since I could remember. Whenever Mom had threatened to leave him, heâd vowed to kill her. She believed him and stayed.
It always bugged me that when Pops was sober he expected me to treat him like a regular, dear old dad. Heâd act over-nice, ask me for kisses and try sucking up to me. I was nearly as repulsed by this behavior as when he was drunk, tyrannical and out of control.
Except for the day he attacked Mom, my father hadnât gotten physical much. Twice, when I was eleven and twelve, heâd slapped Mom, hard enough to leave a bruise. I told friends, who said it was no biggie. Their dads did the same. Sometimes worse.
Now, Pops was gone. Peace at last.
Time was weird. I felt calmest during my sessions with Miss Reyes and when saying the rosary.
The days leading up to Popsâ pretrial hearing went by quickly. I dreaded seeing him in the courtroom. Mom said she was not afraid, that heâd be shackled and in a prison jumpsuit, harmless. Weâd all be fine. Abuela echoed her. I was still terrified.
The prosecutor, Assistant D.A. Ramón, was our guy; he headed up the case, which was called âThe State of New York vs. Oscar Monton.â All three of us went downtown to talk to Ramón and hear what to expect.
He was clear: the hearing would be quick. All Mom had to do was identify Dad. We werenât needed, butRamón felt itâd be good if we came, and we wanted to be there to support Mami.
As we left Ramónâs office, I spotted a red-lettered sign on a wall in the hallway. In bold, red print, which to me, looked like blood, were the words, âAre you a victim of a violent crime?â I asked the D.A. what this meant.
He said, âWait.â
Ducking back into his office, Detective Ramón came out with a pamphlet, apologizing that he hadnât given it to us earlier. I looked down and read âVictims Witness Assistance Program.â
âYouâll get help,â he said, âthese are good folks. Call them for sure.â
I nodded that I would.
On the subway home, Mom asked me to look through the booklet. I did and was glad weâd picked it up. For sure, we qualified for a bunch of helpful services and compensation for Momâs work loss and medical treatment.
The next day, I left a message on VWAâs answering machine. Nanci Colón, a victim-witness advocate called back and asked if weâd like her to sit with us before, during and after the hearing and trial. I asked what it cost. When she said it would be paid for by the state, I told her Iâd ask Mom.
Covering the receiver with my hand, I asked Mom in Spanish. She said,
âSÃ. Seguro.â
I was relieved, since we knew next to nothing about the justice system. Colón said she spoke Spanish fluently, which would help Mom, and especially Abuela.
District Attorney Ramón met with us two more times before the