called out of the blue, shortly after I finished college. Theyâd ask how I was, if I was still in school; Joenetta even asked once if I had gotten myself pregnant again. Theyâd eventually gotten around to a sob story ending in an urgent financial request.
Back then, Aunt Dottie had told me that family and money donât mix. âTori, donât play this game with them. Some folks donât know how to handle money. Donât matter what you give âem Monday, theyâll be broke by Friday. Best thing you can do is pray for God to teach them how to steward what Heâs already given âem.â
âBut Uncle Pete said his lights were going to get cut off tomorrow,â I pleaded on his behalf. This man was Aunt Dottieâs own brother, for goodness sake.
âSo what?â sheâd asked.
âAnd then he wonât have lights,â Iâd reasoned.
Sheâd prompted, âOkay, and then what?â
âAnd then heâll be . . . inconvenienced.â
She finished the scenario. âAnd then heâll go stay with his girlfriend until he gets his next check, and then heâll pay to get his lights turned back on, and then heâll think twice about buying all those Lotto tickets next time, or maybe not. Either way, heâll be all right.â
Against my sense of compassion, I refused Uncle Peteâs request. He had a few choice words for me and hung up in my face.
Aunt Dottie knew her family well. She must have known none of them would step up to the plate to help with her recovery, yet she probably wouldnât say anything to them about their lack of assistance. Somebody had to speak up.
âI think itâs a shame that so few people in this room have agreed to help. I remember when she was the only store on our side of the tracks. Aunt Dottie wouldnât let any family in Bayford starve, least of all her own. Sheâs always been there for us.â
âSheâs always been there for you ,â Joenetta piped up. âShe took you in when you got pregnant and she put you through college. She even sent you money to get you started after you finished college. All that for you, but she wouldnât even bail her blood nephew out of jail!â
Cassandra tagged into the rink. âSo why are you here now, Miss Joenetta?â
ââCause sheâs my sister.â
I laughed. âYeah, right. The sister you wonât take care of for free.â
âDonât talk to my sister that way.â Uncle Billyâs body struggled to a standing position. âAll she sayinâ is, if you want to throw some money at the problem, might as well let it land on us.â
âAunt Dottie is not a problem. Sheâs . . . sheâs Aunt Dottie,â I clarified. âDonât yâall care about her? Sheâs raising your grandson anyway, Joenetta.â
Joenetta came toward me with her index finger swaying side to side. âNow ainât that the pot calling the kettle black?â
âShhhh!â Sister Meecham caught our attention, signaling Aunt Dottieâs return to the room.
Aunt Dottie must have been fully aware of the tension because she maneuvered her bed to an upright position when the nurse left. She blinked a few times, looking everyone in the eyes as though trying to read the jury before a verdict. She signaled with her left hand that sheâd heard us yapping.
My heart sank for her. Again, I stood by her side and grabbed her left hand. âAunt Dottie, weâre just trying to work out the details, thatâs all. Donât worry. Everything will be all right.â
She nodded and sweetly kissed my hand, then drifted off to sleep.
Slowly, the room cleared of visitors. Cassandra was the first to go. She said she had to get back home before her sister dropped off the nephews. Joenetta and Uncle Billy followed. Sister Meecham lagged behind to comfort me. âWhat you told Aunt Dottie was