there was no place for her to live except with a white family, where she had been asked to help out as a baby-sitter. Because this meant âworking for whites,â Lydia Wright wrote to Grandmother Hickman for advice. Her grandmother replied, âAny work, as long as itâs honorable work, is all rightâas long as it helps you go through school.â
Lina, her sister, and two brothers all graduated from Walnut Hills High School, Cincinnatiâs public high school for gifted children. âMy mother and grandmother always told us we were superiorâwe were the best, and the brightest. We had to be, and we were .â Even at Walnut Hills, though, the Wright family detected racial slights, either real or imaginedâsuch as the fact that black children were assigned to use the swimming pool during the last period on Fridays, just before the pool was emptied for the weekend. Lina Fleming herself graduated from Fisk University, and her brothers and sisters are all college graduates. âThere are twenty-eight college degrees in my immediate familyâand nine Ph.D.âs!
âMy family would compare with any upper-class family, white or Negro,â she says. âAnd Iâd have to say weâd come out better than most whites. My brother Nathanâs first wife was a Cardozaâthereâs old Jewish blood there, the best Jewish blood. My brother Hickman was an executive with Ebony , but he couldnât get along with the first vice president. So he left, and went as an executive with Clairol. Later, the man who was first vice president left, and Hickman was asked back to Ebony to replace the man he couldnât get along with! Now Hickman is second in command! My brother Nathan was an Episcopal minister, but he left the church when he got his divorce. Now Nathan teaches at the State College of Albanyâsociology and Black Studies. Heâs married again, to a white girl. We werenât too happy about that. She could have been hostile, but she was nice.When I met her, I said, âWell, now youâre in the family, I suppose weâll have to be friends.â We are, more or less. Her name was Carolyn Mayâsheâs related to that Mr. May who was married to Marjorie Merriweather Post. Sheâs from an old Philadelphia family, related to Longfellowâsheâs a D.A.R. and in the Social Register . Letâs see if they drop her for marrying Nathan! Sheâs all right. They live in a big house in Selkirk, New York, with thirteen acres and eight acres of lawnâan old mansion they fixed up, full of antiques. They have a coupleâa white coupleâthat keeps house for them. My daughter Diana went to St. Anneâs Academy in Arlington, Massachusetts, and from there to Western College for Women, in Oxford, Ohio, which is now a part of Miami University. My niece, Debbie Wright, went to Yale, and was senior class orator in 1973. Another niece, Patty, speaks five languages. Another niece is in a training program at the Chase Manhattan Bank in New York. The other day, she had lunch with David Rockefeller. My sister Lydia is quite rich. Sheâs probably the richest of us all. She made a lot of money in the stock market. She has a huge house in Buffalo, full of museum-quality antiques and beautiful paintingsâbut not showy , like some of those other, those trashy people. I mean, my family is distinguished . White people may not know it, but we know itâweâre superior.â
And yes, Lina Wright Fleming admits, she has her own firm set of prejudices. âIâm prejudiced against Catholics,â she says, âand Iâm prejudiced against WASPs, and Iâm prejudiced against some of my fellow blacks. I mean Negroes. Itâs those people in the ghettoes who say âblack.â We say âNegroââpeople like us.â
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Roots
In the middle part of the 1800s, near the little town of effingham, Illinois, a small community