easy-going kid, almost a teen, and growing fast, with none of that impossible, withdrawn, sullen angst teens are so famous for. I couldnât figure out where he got his qualityâto rise above itâexcept for, maybe, a gene from his beloved deceased grandmother. His irreverent teasing, however, was another thing.
âNice, Mom,â he said. âAre you going to let me pimp the Caddy?â
I poked him in the armpit. âI donât know what youâre talking about, and if I hear you use that kind of language again, Iâll give you a good one. And donât even think about taking the car out.â
âOooooooooo.â
âDonât be smart.â
âOK, sorry, Mom. Iâll be dumb.â
âYouâre being smart.â
Tick was a long way from a driverâs license, but he was dreaming of the day. I saw it in his eyesâI could see me in his eyes.
âSomeday youâll drive it,â I said, reluctantly. Time flew very fast, and, in a blink, he, too, would be driving his first Cadillac. When he ran for president of the United States.
Next on my to-do list was to find a way to get the Cadillac to Florida. Our realtor recommended Mr. Karr of Karr City, who transported her car to Florida every winter. âSure,â hesaid, âno problem. Iâll get it down there in fine shape for $550.â
The day finally came when I drove the Cadillac to K-Mart and met Mr. Karr in the parking lot. I handed him the keys and watched as he pulled the Cadillac up into a berth on the car-hauling trailer for the trip south. A silver-purple ship ready for launch.
âItâll be all right there?â I said.
âHavenât lost one yet,â he said.
Let this not be your first, I thought, watching Dadâs last Cadillac bounce one more time, and then settle down for the trip.
âMeet you safe and sound in Florida,â he said.
9
WONDERFULAND
The first time I left for Florida was on a January morning in 1952 when I was six years old. My grandparents invited me to drive south with them in their new hunter green Cadillac, the early â50s bulbous version with pokey little fins. They spent half the year up North, next door to us on Bernice Road in Lansing, and the other half down in Bradenton near Anna Maria Island. Out of the dozen or so grandchildren, it was my turn that year to go with them to Florida.
That morning, dressed up in a new, maroon coat with a fur collar, direct from Little Bramsonâs in Chicago, I walked over to my grandparentsâ house with Dad, our feet crunching on the frozen grass and cracking the thin ice in the dip between our houses. The sun was just reaching over the trees, shining on the leafless, ice-covered poplars and housetops. It was a wonderland. A frosty, candy-coated morning. And I was on my way to Florida.
I was glad to be leaving home. Mom was expecting another baby, and that was a lot of babies in less than six years. It was chaotic and messy. Every morning, a baby wasstanding in the crib crying and wet with a runny nose. I already knew how to change a diaper and give the baby a bottle. At first, it was thrilling, but the thrill wore offâfast.
Even though I was glad to be going, I didnât want to leave my dad. He sang Irish songs and tickled us. He stood on his head, and we raced around to pick up the coins that fell out of his pockets. I loved that he had wavy black hair and was tall and handsome, with the distinction that he had a nose all over his face because heâd been a Golden Gloves boxing champ.
He picked me up and hugged me, then looked me in the eye. âI know youâll be a fine girl.â
âI will.â
âIâll miss you.â
âMe, too.â
âWhoâs the strongest man in the world?â
âYou are. My dad is.â
The seats in my grandfatherâs new Cadillac were plush, grey-striped, and scratchy. And the back seat where I spent four days