split second and looked at me. From that moment on nothing was ever the same between James and me.
âIâll stay with you,â Wendell said.
âNo, no, go on with your father.â
I wanted to be perfectly alone. I was so calm.
âCalm?â I remember Raelene saying. âBut werenât you screaming on the inside?â
âNo, I had the kind of calm thatâs on the other side of screaming.â Itâs not possible to say what thatâs like. But I was where Iâd never been before. And never been again. Though part of where I was I suspect is still inside me.
I knew if I kept diving I would find my child. And when I found her, I knew I would find a hole in the world that I would fall through. It would be the deepest, blackest, hungriest hole in the world, and I would fall through, and nobody would follow me down, and I wouldnât want them to. But first I had to find her.
Her body was not on the edge of the pond, but out near the middle. At the time this made sense. Only later did I try to figure out how a child who couldnât swim made it out to the middle of the pond.
And to Raelene I didnât say a thing about how it was to swim with her body toward the land, and I wonât ever say a thing about that to anyone, though I did tell James.
I didnât tell him until many years later after this happened, though. Because I hated him so much, hated him immediately, hated him more than I loved him, and hated myself even more than that, which was powerful hatred.
I hated myself too much to weep. Weeping in grief is a kind of pleasure. The only pleasure when it comes to grief. I felt I didnât deserve it. No release. Not for a minute. No pleasure, ever again. No consolation . So back at home, with Wendell locked in his room throwing a ball against the wall for hours, and James in our room weeping for two days straight, I was sleepless and out on the back stoop chain-smoking. And hating James more and more the more I heard his crying. The grand indulgence of his crying.
So you can see by nature Iâm partly cold hearted. And even then I knew that. I thought to myself, A good woman would go comfort her man, a good wife would hold her husband as he weeps. A good woman wouldnât sit here frozen up with rage, a good woman would run to Wendell and tell him time will heal .
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Does time heal, or is that just something we like to say to people? I donât believe it heals . Not really. Time goes by, and the buried pain gets duller, true enough. But is that healing? Was I healing as I froze? No. Healing is something else entirely. It happens within time, but itâs not just time doing the trick.
Half a year after we lost A., I got the news that my father dropped dead of a heart attack. It happened in public, on a street in New York City, where nobody knew him. I went to his funeral, but I didnât digest a thing. Not possible. And years later, when my mother died, which was four years after Wendell was killed, I went to that funeral too. All I know is I sat in the front pew with my eyes closed. I tried to hold a picture of my mother in my mind, but couldnât. Iâd see her, then sheâd start to shatter into pieces. It didnât hurt a bit. And the faces of my children would blend into her shattered face. Then the face would explode like confetti and fall. I watched the explosion, didnât feel a thing but dizzy. I looked at the coffin and thought, Sheâs in there, and didnât feel a thing. But the person I suddenly missed was my father. Missed him like I was a child, like he could come and gather me up. I remember my heart like a car starting to plow into a field of quicksand. I remember I slammed on the brakes and coughed too loud until I felt safe again. Everyone has a time in life where they think, Cry now and youâll never stop . Maybe itâs these times where you have to say, âOkay, ladies and
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