Just F*ck Me!
intercourse. Or, he can wait until she has an orgasm, and then go to town on her in any way he sees fit!
     
    Turning the tables a bit, the other way is that he can have his masturbation be the focal point of the scenario. He might have her do a strip tease, dance or perform other activities (move into certain positions, or put on makeup or brush her hair, or anything else that is feminine for her and turns him on) while he watches and masturbates. He tells her what to do, and she complies.
     
    Again, this can end any number of ways, from mutual masturbation, to her taking over for him, to oral sex, to intercourse. And, as always, dirty talk rules!
     
    As far as oral sex goes, there are pretty much two ways for this as well, with variations on each theme.
     
    For Her:
     
    Normally, a man giving oral pleasure to a woman is viewed as a submissive act on his part. However, men honestly enjoy a good munching, and there should be no reason why this cannot be seen as him exercising his right to pleasure through pleasuring her.
     
    Aggressively eating her out involves lots of fun things: he can grab a hold of her ass, hard, and squeeze; in the same position, use that grabbing as a way to guide her hip movements and rhythm; reaching for the breasts, with some rougher handling or nipple pinching; grabbing her thighs; biting her thighs; aggressive finger thrusting inside her, with an increasing number of fingers; the same for her ass; and quickly transitioning from eating her out to thrusting himself hard inside her.
     
    Also, he can have her on her hands and knees and eat her out from behind. This is a good position if he wants to transition into intercourse; also, he can more easily grab a hold of her and dictate her hip movements and rhythms while he’s at it.
     
    Another nifty little assertive trick here is to reach up and insert a finger or two into her mouth - particularly if you have used it in her vagina already (no ass-to-mouth!). This is a more subtle form of penetration, but still sends the same message.
     
    The general feeling, though, is that this is for his pleasure, and he is dominating her; it’s not to be viewed as him worshipping her, as more submissive, gentle oral sex would be. This can be a good scenario to experiment with when the man is still a bit timid about really asserting himself. At no time, though, should she do any face-sitting. This is all about the man, remember?
     
    For Him:
     
    A woman giving a man a blowjob is perhaps one of the most submissive acts in a traditional lovemaking repertoire. So, it can lend itself to all kinds of nasty fun in the alpha male sexual scenarios, too.
     
    However, there are so many men who are keenly aware of the power dynamic at play; even if these men are into the whole idea of male domination in the bedroom, they can get uncharacteristically shy when it comes to blowjobs.
     
    Also, guys have learned early on that doing anything to upset a girl leads to no more blowjobs, so they’ve gotten very, very careful about doing anything that might highlight the submissive aspects of it.
     
    Well, guys, now is your chance to get it all out of your system, because if she really wants you to be more aggressive sexually, the blowjob is the place where her desires will be put to the test!
     
    However, it’s also the place where you’re most likely to go overboard. So, it’s important to talk to each other about her comfort zone. If you feel this might be an awkward conversation, remember, it won’t be nearly as awkward as the result of her aggression while your penis is in her mouth. One word: OUCH.
     
    All that being said, there are a few ways to approach the blowjob from the alpha male perspective. I’ll say it again, though: it really needs to be thought about and agreed upon beforehand.
     
    The first is the blowjob-on-demand. Unlike what I had mentioned a while back, this is the equivalent of “Bitch, make me a sandwich.” With prior agreement from her, he

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