Free The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them by W. Anton

society as a whole, it is not beneficial, and I bring this up to prepare you for the social resistance you will encounter. You
may
not encounter resistance, you
will
encounter it. As society is based on these ideas, people will automatically and nonconsciously fight to preserve them.
    Nevertheless, just because you have believed something for a very long time or because the majority of people believes something does not make it true. It was not too long ago that the overwhelming majority sincerely believed the world was flat, and people back then believed it with as strong a conviction that they still believe females need to be earned and that females do not enjoy sex as much as males do. But just as the world is not flat, you do not have to earn females, and they actually do enjoy sex as much as males do. The opposite is a lie, which makes everything that is based on it — all the discussions you hear, all the advice you have been given based on those ideas — worthless as well. When the underlying paradigm is wrong, the ideas based on it will most likely be wrong as well since it is hard to hit your mark when you are facing the wrong direction, no matter how good your aim.
    By simply understanding nature and nurture, you are ahead of the game already. Next, you need to learn more about their effects to take advantage of this knowledge and to best seduce women.

Chapter Three
    SEDUCTION
    Seduction is a natural and uncomplicated activity. It can humorously, yet accurately, be described as the process by which males and females who are mutually attracted learn to know each other intimately, one sense at a time, by moving closer to each other at a comfortable pace until the male ends up inside the female and is so comfortable that he inseminates her. But our socialization is the cause of several limiting beliefs about what women want, and it suppresses the natural behavior that females are attracted to in males, which makes the originally amusing, simple, and straightforward process appear a lot more serious, complicated, and difficult.
    Before you reach the final part of this book, Part IV — which is about the seduction process itself; what to do and in what order to do it — there will be several discussions on what to avoid. This may seem a bit strange. Why dedicate such a big proportion of the book to what
not
to do instead of only discussing what to do? Unfortunately, males who are unsuccessful with women do manythings that are not only wrong but also unnecessary. However, there really is not that much a man has to do to seduce women. Success is simple and straightforward, but failure is hard and complicated.
    The best way to actually get girls is to understand what women want (not what our socialization leads us to
believe
they want and not what women’s socialization leads women to
claim
they want, but what they actually respond to naturally) and then give it to them. And while our socialization makes males believe, or at least act like, they are of less worth than females and that females have to be earned, which is nonsense, a male does need to offer females value to be interesting to them; he needs something that increase females’ chances to pass their genes on.
    However, a male’s value, which is a synonym for his attractiveness, lies within himself the same way a female’s value, her attractiveness, is all part of her. Members of both sexes look for traits that increase their own chance to survive and reproduce. The only difference is that females value different things in males than males do in females. Males want women for what their nonconscious mind believes women’s
bodies
can offer them, while females want men for what their nonconscious mind believes men’s
behaviors
can offer them.
    If women do not find a male attractive, he is simply not offering them enough genetic value; his behavior is unattractive, and he can only become attractive by improving his behavior to become more masculine and thus