every sensation. His legs can be together or spread apart.
Make Sure He’s Not Holding His Breath
As the action heats up, many men tend to tense their bodies and hold their breath—a common impulse if they’re trying to concentrate. But the fact is, muscles and nerves need oxygen to function properly. The more he breathes, the more he can feel, so remind him to inhale and exhale deeply to keep the hot-blooded fun flowing.
Take Your Sweet Time
Admit it: It’s pretty easy to get a guy to reach Kingdom Come, whether that’s via your hand, mouth, vagina, armpit, or otherwise. And sure, when you’re tired or time is tight it’s tempting to movethings right along because you can (and you won’t hear him complaining). We’re not saying these quickie climaxes aren’t nice. But given that the strength of his sexual release is directly correlated to how wound up you get him beforehand, why settle for a molehill when you could shoot for Mount Everest peaks? To build his pleasure, try slowing down the pace of your heavy petting. Or if he’s close to the edge, keep him teetering on the brink with a little teasing. It’s definitely time well spent.
Is He About to Blow? Tips to Prolong the Fun
You’re probably familiar with the Point of No Return—that moment when a guy is mere milliseconds away from experiencing a small piece of heaven on earth. While its very name suggests there’s no going back at this juncture, it actually is possible to slow him down if you want to draw things out. If he makes it clear in so many words or groans that he’s near Nirvana, wrap your thumb and forefinger in a ring around the base of his testicles and gently pull them away from his body. The reason this works is that prior to ejaculation, his balls hunch closer to the body to prepare for blastoff. By pulling them away from their locked-and-loaded position, you can keep his barrage at bay almost indefinitely. Don’t worry, it won’t hurt; it merely delays the big launch until you both decide the time is right.
Yes! Yes! Yes! How to Make Your Man Multiorgasmic
You’re probably aware that women can experience multiple orgasms, but here’s a newsflash you might have missed: Men can be multiorgasmic, too. With a little training, guys can hit two, three, or more high notes without taking long time-outs in between. If you’re dubious, allow us to explain the science behind this bold claim.
HOW TO DELAY EJACULATION
It’s often thought that in men orgasm (the pleasurable contraction of muscles) and ejaculation (the release of semen) are all wrapped up in one big pleasure package, but they’re actually two distinct physiological phenomena that need not occur simultaneously. Train your guy how to separate one from the other, and he can have orgasms galore without setting loose his little swimmers, which is what typically pulls the plug on his hard-on and puts an end to the festivities. First, he needs to learn how to contract his pubococcygeal (or PC) muscle, which lines the pelvic cavity and can be located by stoppingthe flow of urine. Clenching this muscle can also halt the flow of seminal fluid from the body. Before he can do this he may need to build up his strength first by flexing these muscles twenty or more times per day for a week on his own. (If you’re familiar with Kegel exercises, this is the male equivalent.)
Once you two are ready to give multiple Os a go together, start off by stimulating him as usual. The moment he feels that first flutter of orgasmic contractions, you should stop all stimulation while he squeezes his PC muscle as hard as he can. In doing so, he can prevent ejaculation while those orgasmic contractions keep flowing. He can repeat this pleasurable process as many times as he pleases, although eventually he’ll probably want to top things off by busting loose with an orgasm/ejaculation finale.
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