Free Red Hot Touch by Jon Hanauer

area is decked out with more nerve endings than any other area of the body. And if that weren’t enough of a reason to explore, about three inches inside this aperture you’ll encounter a walnut-shaped bump—the prostate gland, a wellspring of sensitivity that can set off even more sparks.
    HANDLING HIS ULTIMATE HOT SPOT: SOME GUIDELINES TO KEEP IN MIND
    In the next chapter we’ll discuss specific techniques to try on the above-mentioned man parts that will blow his hair back and leave him begging for more. But before we get to that we feel it’s best to start off with some overall pointers. Giving great hand is not as simple and self-evident as it is often made out to be. Heed this advice, and you’ll avoid a few common misjudgments and leave his peter very impressed.
    Don’t Expect a Raging Hard-on the Whole Time
    Boners are funny that way: Sometimes they pop up with no encouragement whatsoever (and when they’re least convenient to deal with); other times every trick in this book won’t inspire an inch of interest. Either way, don’t assume you’re wasting your time if the tent pitching is taking a while, or if his Maypole rises but then starts losing altitude. While people are conditioned to think that erection = arousal and use it as a barometer of their success in the sack, as any guy will tell you, the penis truly has a mind of its own. So don’t take its actions (or lack thereof) too personally.
    Meanwhile, remember that firm or flaccid, his love rod still contains the same number of nerve endings that can register on his Richter scale; some men (especially older gents) can even ejaculate when they’re soft as a sundae. In fact, many of the genital massage techniques we teach are best performed when his hard-on is anything but. No matter what, if you find yourself face-to-face with one that refuses to roar to life, probably the worst thing you can do is stop and ask, “Is something wrong?” Penises don’t respond well to pressure, soyour question will only feed your partner’s mounting performance anxiety and keep liftoff in limbo. Instead ask, “Does this feel good, or would you rather I try something different?” Your partner may steer you in a better direction, or reassure you that while things might not look like it, he’s having a grand old time. Either way, eventually things should start looking up.
    Request a Hands-on Demo
    If you have never watched your guy masturbate, now is the time to ask (or, if you have already, appeal for a repeat performance). Every johnson is a little different, and the only person who knows a certain model’s particular quirks is the guy behind the wheel. To get the inside scoop, you could of course ask him to pontificate about his likes and dislikes. But actions speak louder than words, so ask him to show you how it’s done and you’ll get a real eye-opener.
    Understandably, some men might be bashful about performing this typically private act in front of you. If he’s reluctant, suggest a two-way performance where you both masturbate in front of each other; few red-blooded men would be able to resist such an offer. Another alternative is to put your hands on his privates, layer his hands on top of yours, and have him guide you through the movements. However you conduct your tutorial, you’ll learn tons about where and how he likes to be touched that you can file away in your memory bank for future use.
    That said, don’t copy his actions completely. In case you didn’t know this, most men (even those in relationships) masturbate far more than you’d care or dare to imagine, and for all kinds of reasons—because they’re horny, because they’re bored, because there’s a commercial break during the NBA playoffs—all in all, just aboutany occasion can be seen as an opportunity to jack off. As a result, many men don’t raise the bar very high when tugging their wares—and it’s up to you to show him how good it can get. So if you do get to watch him