that the pursuit of pleasure at the table is a political act. But as for gays breaking out in American restaurant kitchens, expressing a queer point of view in their cookingâwell, apart from a few mavericks like Elizabeth Falkner, that hasnât really happened. Pastryâlike the cold line I was relegated to back in my dayâremains a safe space for gays in the kitchen. In a lot of ways weâre still on the fringes, even if queer food writers fundamentally changed the way we think about food in this country.
I donât recall the last time Lou made a Roquefort burger for me, but it couldnât have been long after 1970. When I was in junior high, Pat suffered a heart attack and diedâhis mother and sisters came outfrom St. Louis and took the body back with them; Lou was not invited to the funeral. Patâs mother and sisters took everything with them: the clothes, the cocktail rings. The irises under the oaks got patchy. Lou drank a lot. He found another boyfriend, a short Canadian who drove a purple AMC Gremlin and who nobody liked, not even my mom (she thought he was âtoo gayâ). I lost track of Lou when I went away to collegeâmy mom said he sold the house and was living in a mobile-home park near the ocean. She hardly ever went to visit.
After college, I moved to San Francisco and got my own boyfriend. He continued my food education. We read passages from Olneyâs Simple French Food out loud, and cooked, and studied each otherâs pleasure like scholars.
D EBTS OF P LEASURE
By John T. Edge
From the Oxford American
John T. Edge wears a lot of hatsâdirector of the Southern Foodways Alliance, food columnist for the New York Times, Garden & Gun , and the Oxford American, and all-around promoter of Southern food. Which sometimes means reminding us who really cooked that food. . . .
O n a summer day in 1949, ballerina Tanaquil Le Clercq, novelist Donald Windham, painter Buffie Johnson, playwright Tennessee Williams, and writer-provocateur Gore Vidal gathered at Café Nicholson, a bohemian supper club set in the back courtyard of an antique store on New York Cityâs Upper East Side. It was a heady moment. Williams had won a Pulitzer Prize the year before. Vidal had just published The City and the Pillar . Beneath the shade trees in proprietor Johnny Nicholsonâs garden, they ate and drank. They smoked and gossiped. They posed and preened, fully aware that photographer Karl Bissinger was there to capture their idyll for posterity.
In those postwar days, the café, decorated in what Nicholson described as a âfin de siècle Caribbean of Cuba style,â served as a canteen for the creative class and a backdrop for fashion shoots. (Before it finally closed in 2000, the café also served as an occasional movie set; Woody Allen filmed scenes from Bullets Over Broadway there.) Paul Robeson was a regular. So was Truman Capote, who sometimes came bursting into the kitchen looking for biscuits.
Nicholson was the Barnum of their social set, presiding with a parrot named Lolita on his shoulder. Bissinger, who served the cafeas an early business partner and a sometimes gardener and host, made a living curating social tableaus for magazines like Vogue and Harperâs Bazaar. During the postwar years he captured everyone from a languorous Henry Miller, lighting a cigarette, to a faunal Capote, reclining in a wicker chaise. But the photograph he shot that afternoon at Café Nicholson has proved his most famous. In a New York Times obituary of Bissinger, William Grimes called the scene a âclass picture of the young and the talented in the American arts, more than ready for their close-ups.â
I first glimpsed the image on a postcard I bought at a Memphis bookstore. In that rendition, the black woman in the background was left unnamed. Because I knew a bit about the history of Café Nicholson and the role that Edna Lewis, the African-American cookery