jabbering going on in
our heads. A reality check is a great way to take us out of zombie
mode, allowing us to achieve an expanded awareness throughout
TOTEM
Keep a small item that is personal to you in your pocket, on your key chain, or somewhere you’ll see it throughout your day. Whenever you see it, or feel it in your pocket, perform a reality check. This will help you create the habit of determining if you’re dreaming or not, which will then carry over into your dreams.
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our daily lives. Use it as an opportunity to come back to the pres-
ent moment, look around, and see the nice things that surround
you. The waking world can be a real trip, too.
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Summary
You begin your dialogue with the dream world while you are
awake, with reality checks.
• By asking yourself throughout your day “Am I dreaming?” you
will soon ask the same question while in a dream. “Yes! I am
dreaming this time!”
• As you pose the question, perform a physical check as well.
• Perform a reality check five to ten times a day, at regular
intervals. Use a consistent occurrence to remind yourself to
perform a reality check, such as “every time you see a dog.”
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P a r t t h r e e
ArrivAl
Now that you’ve packed your bags, it’s time to get going.
Your destination is not always the easiest place to
find, but we’ll guide you through your arrival. Pretty
soon you’ll look around and take in the strange but familiar
surroundings.
As we were learning how to lucid dream, we came to real-
ize that becoming lucid wasn’t an impossible skill, as some people
might think. After trying out various techniques, it seemed just as
accessible as any hobby or sport: we simply trained our bodies and
minds to form new habits.
Being disciplined was important, but we discovered that the
right frame of mind was even more essential. So be confident,
upbeat, and willing to fail in order to try again. The wrong state
of mind is like a Chinese finger trap: the more you force it, the
more frustration and pressure you exert, the less likely you’ll have a
lucid dream. If you stay focused and relaxed, the dream will simply
come to you.
Can you feel the excitement? We’re almost there! After this
section you’ll have all the knowledge you need to enter a world of
your own creation. Have fun. We’ll see you on the other side.
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9
Becoming Lucid
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In forming a bridge between body and mind, dreams may be used as a
springboard from which man can leap to new realms of experience lying
outside his normal state of consciousness.
—Ann Faraday,
dream writer, advocate for personal dream interpretation
On July 20, 1969, a machine with legs like a spider
detached from the command module and touched down
on the surface of the moon. If they had been able to
survive without their helmets on, the astronauts would have heard
the complete silence of outer space. Commander Neil Armstrong’s
foot reached the surface, but because of the constraint of the suit
he was wearing, he was not able to see the historic footprint that
he made. He described the surface as having a powdery feel. Buzz
Aldrin joined him, looking out at the empty landscape, finding
that double kangaroo jumps were the most effective way to get
around.
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Hundreds of thousands of miles away, the Earth listened to
the men speak. In an attempt to describe this strange place, Aldrin
used the phrase “magnificent desolation.”
If you’ve ever wanted to reach out into the mystery of outer
space yourself, lucid dreaming is not far off. In this chapter we’ll
finally arrive in our dreams, using the tools we’ve collected over the
last few chapters. Houston, we’re about to touch down.
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