Free Oral Sex for Every Body: Giving and Receiving for Men and Women by Tina Robbins Page A

that the tissue situated between the vagina and urethra (the place other studies designate as being the probable location of the “G” spot) was much more dense in the group experiencing the orgasms than the group that didn’t. This would prove, according to the researchers, that the “G” spot is real.

    Scientists of the Italian university concluded that a thicker vaginal wall close to the urethra can be linked with the presence of the contested “G” spot.

    Locating the “G” Spot. It is not easy. The best way is to try to find it on your own, calmly exploring your own body, and once you find it to enjoy stimulating it. You can also use a vibrator (there are ones specifically designed for the “G” spot) to turn on this little treasure. Don’t get bent out of shape if you don’t find it the first time. This is totally normal, and the majority of women who never discover it at all find they don’t need it to feel sexually fulfilled and complete.

    Let’s go through a series of steps to facilitate finding your “G” spot:

Sit relaxed. This is the ideal position, since if you are lying on your back it becomes harder to locate since gravity tends to pull your internal organs downwards (away from the vagina).
Lubricate your fingers with saliva or a bit of massage oil and gently stimulate your clitoris. It’s important to keep the vagina excited and well lubricated in order to stimulate the “G” spot. Don’t hurry; take as much time as you need.
Introduce two fingers into the vagina (ring and middle fingers). To help you know exactly where, first be aware that the Gräfenberg (or “G”) spot is a small area located in the female genital area behind the pubic bone and near the urethra. So that there’s no misunderstanding, let’s imagine the face of a clock, centered at the vaginal opening. With the “12” pointing at the navel, the “G” spot would be located between twelve and one o’clock. Keep your fingers arched and make a tapping movement (not penetration). Do this rhythmically and continuously. When doing this, make sure your hands are completely clean and your nails are short; it would also be a good idea to use a little massage cream or oil to help the fingers fit inside.
Continue moving your fingers into the interior of your vagina. Imagine there is a kind of egg resting on the bottom of the vaginal wall. Use your fingers to go around this “egg.” If you notice a swelling here, it means you have found your “G” spot.
Move one or two fingers over the area. Keep going over it; have fun with it. Now bend the finger(s) upwards and a bit to the left. The position of the fingers is very important when locating and stimulating the “G” spot. Notice how it swells up, how it throbs, and begins to feel good.

    On the market there are vibrators designed specifically for stimulating the “G” spot (s-shaped dildos, also vibrators with
    a wide head). If you want, you can also have your partner search for your “little treasure.” To do this, lay on your bed face down with your legs apart and your hips slightly elevated. Your partner should sit behind you and stimulate your clitoris using fingers, or, if you prefer, mouth or lips. This is a matter of starting slowly, bringing you to the point, bit by bit, where you are fully lubricated. When you are ready, ask your partner to put their fingers in your vagina, with the palm facing down. The idea is to explore the anterior wall of the vagina, maintaining firm pressure.

    Meanwhile, move your pelvis so as to help your partner make contact with the “G” spot and describe what you are experiencing as it is stimulated.

    It is possible to stimulate the “G” spot using fingers or tongue, combining the pressure of pushing down on the clitoris while simultaneously arching the tongue or finger upwards in a gentle, knocking movement. This should be done with the inserted finger from one to three inches (2.5 to
    7.5 cm) inside the vagina to be