Free Oral Sex for Every Body: Giving and Receiving for Men and Women by Tina Robbins Page B

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    Nevertheless, every woman probably needs a unique way of being stimulated. According to those who support the existence of the “G” spot, stimulating it will precipitate a vigorous, satisfying orgasm and will cause female ejaculation.

    OTHER EROGENOUS SPOTS

    The “G” spot has garnered all the fame, but there exist other highly erotogenic spots in a woman’s genitals. If we learn how to stimulate them (orally or manually), we can experience intense and varied orgasms.
THE “A” SPOT. This is located in the back of the vagina, about three-quarters of an inch to one and a quarter inches (2 to 3 cm) before the cervix and a bit behind the “G” spot. To stimulate it, slide your fingers half-way down the posterior wall of the vagina. There you will find an area that is bigger and slightly rougher than the rest of the vaginal wall. You are now at the “A” spot. It is stimulated virtually the same way as is the “G” spot. With this spot you can set off multiple orgasms (once you’ve reached maximal vaginal lubrication).
THE “K” SPOT. It is located at the end of the vagina, just before the cervix. It is stimulated only by penetration; the penis must enter the vagina extremely deeply to reach it. The ideal position to do this is the man face-to-face with the woman. The woman lies on her back and puts her legs over the shoulders of the man.
THE “U” SPOT. This spot is located near the urethra (through which urine is passed) beneath the clitoris. Oral stimulation is very pleasant here. To do it, put firm and constant pressure on the urethral area with the lower lip and teeth while touching with the tongue all over the area. One can also separate the labia minora (little lips) of the vulva to totally expose the urethra and caress it gently with the tongue.

    THEY HAVE A “G” SPOT TOO!

    It is none other than the prostate, one of the most inaccessible but, at the same time, most erogenous areas of a man’s body.

    The prostate is a small gland (resembling a nut) situated under the bladder and crossed over by the urethra.
    To stimulate it, it is necessary to introduce a finger into the man’s anus. It is here that we might meet with some resistance. Stimulating this area often causes men discomfort. It is best approached with great delicacy and, even better, when he is excited to the max. Lubricate your finger with some petroleum jelly or massage oil and slide it in gently. Pay attention to your guy’s facial expressions and adapt your approach in accord with his reactions.

    This works best with the man on his back and his legs drawn back as far as possible against his chest. This facilitates putting your finger in his anus (about two inches [5 cm]). You will find the prostate here by pressing in the direction of the penis. Gently massage the gland and the area around it. You can also pressure the prostate or lightly move your finger in and out to bring about orgasm.

    MEETING UP IN PHASE FOUR

    Sexologists agree in dividing the cycle of sexual response (for both men and women) into four phases: excitation, plateau, orgasm, and resolution.

Her Orgasm. The excitation phase of a woman, depending on several mental and physical factors, is usually accompanied by specific physical responses. The typical ones in this phase are:
Start of vaginal lubrication.
Expansion (by two-thirds) of the interior of the vagina.
The labia majora (big lips) separate and the labia minora (little lips) increase in size (two or three times normal size).
The clitoris grows in size and becomes erect. Just before climax the hood of the clitoris draws back.
In this phase the clitoral glans is still not visible.
The nipples may become erect as a result of muscular contractions. In addition, the breasts grow in size (approximately 25 percent larger).

    During the plateau phase, a woman may experience the following:
Increased vasocongestion of the vagina, which causes the outer third to swell. As a result, during this phase,