why not. Sheâs in a lot of pain, and you can tell sheâs just waiting to find out what happens next, that she canât think about anything else until she knows. Itâs been ten days, and all weâve been doing is
waiting.
And she wants me to go to school and act like everything is A-OK.â
Heâs looking at me now but the ball is still going up and down with a soft
thwack
,
thwack
,
thwack.
I stare at it for a minute and keep talking, barely aware of what Iâm saying.
âShe doesnât want me to help her, you know, to thebathroom, or change her tube thingy thatâs draining all this yellow gunk from her chest. Then she starts crying, sheâs in so much pain. I can tell she wants to be strong for me, but she hurts so bad she canât help herself. Maybe she doesnât want me home during the day. Maybe itâs so hard to be strong for me that Iâm making it harder for her. Or maybe she
needs
me there so she can be strong. I donât know. Either way I know I have to be strong for her but Iâm not sure how long I can be and I canât stand this
waiting.
â
Iâm breathing hard and I can feel him looking at me.
âAnd I know I shouldnât be thinking about this right now, but I canât get it out of my head that I might have this gene mutation like sheâs got and soon itâll be my turn to be going through all this. I think of the
waiting
Iâll have to do until I finally get cancer and Iâm not sure I can take it. I donât even know if I have the mutation or not, but all this not-knowing is about to drive me insane. I want to scream and scream and scream.â
âWhy donât you?â Mr. Jarad says. âGo somewhere where no one can hear you and scream to your heartâs content.â
âWhat is this, primal therapy? I canât go somewhere and scream. People would think Iâm crazy.
I
would think Iâm crazy.â
He shrugs.
Thwack, thwack, thwack.
âI found a website where I can do a BRCA test online and no one would know about it. Youâre
supposed
to go talk to a genetic counselor and Mom said I could go if I want to, but I know theyâll just tell me not to think about it and wait untilIâm older. Thatâs what everybody has been saying. Do they really think I can
not
think about it? Really? Maybe some people can, but not me. Itâs
all
I can think about. And, really, Iâm still not sure whether I even
want
to know, and it feels stupid and selfish for me to be thinking about all this when my mom can barely pee by herself and she needs me so much. Iâm just so afraid â¦â
Mr. Jarad looks at me. âWhat are you afraid of?â
âHuh?â I glare at him, but heâs not being sarcastic. âWhat do you think? Iâm afraid my mom is going to die.â My breath hitches just saying it. âOkay, Iâm not always the best daughter, I forget to pick up my stuff and sometimes Iâm bitchy to her, but ⦠I canât lose her. I canât lose her too.â
Heâs quiet while I concentrate on
not
crying. And then I do, and he hands me a tissue.
âErin, when youâre feeling like this,â he says, âyou need to be careful with yourself. Teens in your position have a tendency to engage in risk-taking behavior, like drinking and driving, and drugs. Hereâs my tip for the day: go somewhere and scream instead.â
I ditch school after my session with Mr. Jarad. I donât really mean to. I tell Ms. Brown, the front office secretary, I forgot my trig homework in my car and she looks at me all pity-eyed.
âOh dear,â she says, her words fluttery. Ms. Brown is not that old, but everything about her shakes and quivers, from herflyaway hair to her trembling hands and voice. âIâm
so
sorry about your mother. Weâve let your teachers know, and please feel free to come talk to Mr. Jarad whenever you