shocked each other with their responses.
location, location,” women want “attention, attention,
“I love the way the hair curls at the back of her neck and the little attention”—in whatever form you can imagine.
dimples above her buttocks.” His wife could only say, “You’re kidding . . I hate those,” and he said, “I know I love ‘em.” And then she jerked back and said, “No wonder you like doggy style so Engage Her l ive Senses
much!” In full-throated, blushing laughter he said, “Busted!” For her, his hands were her major turn-on⎯“‘cause you’re big and strong and By enticing her five senses—sight, smell, taste, hearing, and touch—
I love to look at them and remember how they feel on my body.”
you bring her one step closer to the second element of foreplay, Once she knows how you feel about a part of her beautiful anatomy, awakening her body. Consider engaging her senses to be the crucial remind her, often and regularly.
link or bridge that connects her mind to her body. Now that you have romanced her, relaxed her mind, it’s time to begin awakening her TIPS TO HELP HER RELAX
body. As a CPA from Chicago said, “I want to touch as many of her ¾ Create a space that makes her relax. A woman responds senses as I can—all of them.” Elicit and engage her senses, and she keenly to her environment. Create an oasis for her—whether will become putty in your delighted hands.
it’s the bedroom, the living room, the outside porch, or the bathroom. Use lighting, scent, or other sensory stimulation to SIGHT
declare that the workday has ended, and now it’s time to Humans are essentially visual creatures. As such, sight is one of our relax.
most powerful senses because it is the one we rely on most. Men ¾ Before she walks in the door, draw her a bath. Light candles have shared again and again that they like and respond to the way a or incense, help her undress, and sit beside her (on the woman creates a home or an environment that is inviting. So why not throne, obviously not using it) so you can share this wind capitalize on what you know works and do the same for her? By down time with her. Help bathe her or rub her back with a creating a special, intimate space, you are sure to score points with loofah. Perhaps you want to give her a glass of wine or a her.
cool glass of water. One woman, a children’s book illustrator The visual appeal of your love nest can have a wondrous effect on from New Jersey, recalled, “I knew I was marrying my
her, so it’s to your advantage if you keep your room, apartment, or husband the first time he drew a bath for me and bathed me.
house neat and tidy. Please do not ask a lady to sleep in an unmade or already slept-in bed. And clothes strewn about on the floor, bed, or lamp shade are not going to be considered art—believe me. Yuck!
On the other hand, men sweat more than women, and as such, She’ll think of you as stuck in college. In order to make a woman they need to be very aware of their hygiene when it involves a lady.
feel special, invite her into a place that shows you care about The sweat in the apocrine glands, which are the specialized sweat yourself.
glands in the armpit and groin, secrete a more viscous and pungent sweat. When this sweat comes into contact with regular body HELPFUL TIPS
bacteria, the result is body odor. The best way to avoid offending ¾ Dim lighting is flattering—to both of you.
your partner is to shower frequently and use deodorant. Some ladies ¾ If you really want to seduce her, put a discreet bud vase will be turned on by your natural body scent, but don’t confuse this holding one flower either by the bed or in a place that’s with BO.
visible from the bed. This can be one of your “tonight”
signals.
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SECRET FROM LOU’S ARCHIVES
For single men, if you have any photos in your room, make sure they are not of exes—this could be a turnoff.
There are some men that by virtue of