is a safe and friendly place. All is well.
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The Second Emotional Center:
Bladder, Reproductive Organs,
Lower Back, and Hips
The second emotional center is all about love and money. If
you aren’t able to bring balance between these two areas of life,
you will be prone to health problems of the bladder, reproductive
organs, lower back, or hips. So the key to mastering health in this
emotional center is learning how to manage your finances with-
out sacrificing your love life and vice versa. Easy enough, right?
Wrong. There are very few people who are naturally good at this,
so let’s get started.
Just as with all other emotional centers, the part of your body
that is affected will depend on what type of thought pattern or be-
havior is causing the imbalance in this area of your life. For second
emotional center problems, we find four types of people: those
who would rather focus on love than money, those who focus on
money rather than love, those who have an unbridled drive to
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move forward in money and love, and those who can’t responsibly
handle either love or money. We will get more specific as we work
through the body parts, but in all cases it is important to listen to
your body. Remember, your body is an intuitive machine, and it
will alert you to problems in your emotional health by yelling out
physically.
The negative thought patterns associated with the second
emotional center involve anxiety, anger, or sadness about gender
identity and sexuality, as well as relationship struggles and finan-
cial concerns. This, of course, makes sense because when we leave
the safety of our family (the first emotional center) and strike out
on our own in the world, the first challenges we have to handle on
our own are love and money, relationships and finances.
So what is standing in the way of you making the critical
changes in your finances and relationships to create better health?
Are you holding on to anger at your partner? Do you always let
other people handle your money? Are you irresponsible with your
money? Do you feel stifled?
These are just a few of the types of emotions and behaviors
that lead to second emotional center health problems. If you can
identify the thought patterns that underlie your health problem,
you can begin to make the necessary emotional, behavioral, and
physical changes to improve the health of your bladder, reproduc-
tive organs, and lower back and hips. Identifying the root cause is
the first step. The next step is to transform these negative thoughts
and behaviors into new ways of thinking to create health.
Second Emotional Center Affirmation
Theory and Science
As with all other illnesses, Louise’s affirmation theory looks
at the emotional nuance behind the health problems in the sec-
ond emotional center. For example, the health of the menstrual
cycle as a whole and a woman’s capacity to be free of amenorrhea,
dysmenorrhea, or fibroid tumors depends on whether or not she
has a healthy sense of her femininity. Rejection of femininity is a
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negative thought pattern associated with female problems in gen-
eral. Sexual guilt and anger at a mate are associated with vaginitis
and bladder infection.
Alternatively, the prostate represents the masculine side of the
principle. Sexual pressure and guilt, as well as a person’s attitudes
about aging, are associated with prostate problems.
Power struggles in relationships set the scene for sexually
transmitted diseases. Whether it’s gonorrhea, herpes, or syphilis,
beliefs that genitals are “sinful” or “dirty,” sexual guilt, and a feel-
ing that you need to be punished are all thought patterns that
are connected to venereal disease. A belief