gently lowered myself down on to the sofa.
âI have to talk to you now, Donatella.â
âWell, itâll just have to wait!â
I raised my voice.
âIt. Canât. Wait.â
My mother slowly spun around. I finally had her attention. She didnât seem to notice now that my wet pants were soaking through her precious couch cushions.
âWhat do you mean? Are you in trouble?â
âNo.â
âDid you shoplift? Trespass? Smoke?â
âNothing like that.â
I folded my hands in my lap.
âThen what is it?â she cried throwing her arms up in the air.
âItâs something I should have discussed with you a long time ago.â
âGood goddess, Emma, I have a date with a gorgeous, thirty-nine-year-old lobsterman in six minutes!
Out with it!
â
For the first time in my life, I studied her puffy, pouty lips and her pudgy button nose and those large, glittering eyes gathered at the center of her full face that reflected nothingâabsolutely nothingâof me.
âAm I adopted?â
At first she was still and completely silent.
Then she collapsed over the back of the couch bursting into deep laughter, laughing harder than I had ever heard her laugh. She was even snorting. Finally, she ran to the bathroom because she thought she might âexplode.â
A minute later, the toilet flushed and Donatella reappeared, wiping away laughing tears from her face with a tissue.
âOh look at me,â she said, still hiccupping with the giggles, âmy face is a mess.â
âSo?â I asked waiting for an answer. âAm I?â
Donatella wandered over to the rocking chair and sat on the edge.
âAre you kidding? Is that what this is all about? Do you really think I adopted you and never told you?â
Thatâs when I confessed everything that proved it: the physical differences, the total lack of affection or motherly interest, the daughter denial to her boyfriends, the endless chores and work hours, the overall neglect . . . and above all, my hideous, humiliating, horrifying name.
Her giggles quickly faded into a single, bewildered expression as I informed her of everything she had ever done wrong. I had never seen Donatella look so sad and realized I had said more than I meant to say. Immediately, I worried she would lock herself up for three days again. Or maybe longer.
But instead, she scooted the rocking chair close to me and took my hand. Something she hadnât done in a long, long time.
âAll these years, I thought I was treating you like an equal, Emma. I wanted to give you lots and lots of space to be your own person and to always be able to take care of yourself. And I wanted you to feel you could be whoever
you
wanted to be. Something I yearned for growing up but never had. My own mother was so suffocating and overprotective and judgmental and paranoid and strict that I was absolutely miserable!â
Donatella pounded her chest with her fist as if she were a teenager again trying to explain her feelings to the whole world.
âWHY do you think I ran off and got married at sixteen?â
âBut you make me do so much around here,â I protested.
âBecause you seem to enjoy it!â she practically shrieked. âThe only time I see you smile is when youâre working down in the store!â
âWell, what about my name?â
âWhat about it? I love the name Emma. Everyone does! Itâs the most popular name in America.â
âThatâs not what I mean!â
âHonestly,â she said as she scrunched up her face, âyouâre not making any sense.â
I gave up. It was like talking to a yo-yo.
âSo youâre saying that Iâm really and truly
not
adopted?â
She squeezed my hand and shook her head no.
âYouâre
really
my mother? And the Salvonis are
really
my family?â
âSorry, kid.â
How could this be possible? Especially