Free Incredible Sex (52 Brilliant Little Ideas) by Marcelle Perks, Elisabeth Wilson Page A

into your next blow job – he’ll appreciate it.
    Of course you know how to do this. Perhaps it was one of the first sexual things you learned. But maybe a little refresher is in order (and not just a mouthwash).
    Whatever your technique, it’s worth making sure it includes these moves:
   Use your tongue to circle around the rim on the head of the penis quite firmly and to run up and down the ridge on the underside until it meets the small piece of skin where the head meets the shaft – the frenulum. Doing this stimulates two of the most sensitive parts of the penis (if he’s uncircumcised – but try it even if he is).
   Massage the perineum (the spot between the testicles and anus) while you’re going down – a vibrator is good for this.
   After years together, you may be taking his pleasure somewhat for granted. For most men, the easiest way to make them think they’re getting a great blow job is for you to seem to be having a fine time. So, give it all the enthusiasm you would the finest hocolate ice-cream and if the odd moan of pleasure escapes all the better. Or you could hum – some women swear by humming while they’re giving oral sex, as the vibrations heighten the sensation on the penis.
    Here’s an idea for you…
     
Ask him to run his hands through your hair or touch the side of your face while you’re going down on him. Men don’t often think to do this, and women don’t ask them because for most women the sense of having their head controlled is an unpleasant one, but there’s a world of difference between a man keeping contact by gently ruffling your hair and gripping your ears in a death grip.
    Here are some extras. Add sensations that make him even more aware of what’s going on down there.
   Swirl mouthwash around your mouth before going down: the mint tingles and makes him more tuned in to the heat of your mouth. Toothpaste gives an even more extreme sensation.
   Bite into a lemon.
   Hold a mouthful of neat vodka in your mouth as long as you can. Try this tentatively at first. Sensitive souls feel it as a burn.
   Hot tea (not boiling) used the same way can engulf him in a warm bath of sensation.
   An ice cube crushed in your mouth will be excruciatingly sensitive. Or keep the ice cube intact and work it around his penis as you move your mouth up and down.

41.     The great and the good
     
    Alternative girl’s-gotta-have-it zones within the vagina. That mysterious wee thing, the G-spot. Talk about best of both worlds!
    The next time you take a shower do an internal examination. About three inches inside the vagina you’re likely to find a spongy spot about the shape of an almond. If you can’t locate it try taking a pee, and you should be able to feel the urine moving through the vaginal wall. Remember, it’s not on the wall, probe and feel for it through the wall. Em and Lo in The Big Bang describe it as a ‘kind of ceiling pipe surrounded by erectile tissue called the urethral sponge, sort of like insulation’. For some people it’s sensitive to the touch, but bear in mind that it can be quite hard to locate it yourself with a finger. Try using one of the special curved G-spot dildos like the Magic Wand, or better still, ask your partner to help you. Some women wait until they’ve already had an orgasm to probe the area. Some swear the best position is lying on their backs with their legs in the air, others lie on their side or kneel. Sex is very individual, so have a feel – is this a potential hot spot for you?
    Here’s an idea for you…
     
If you’re having problems finding your G-spot, try searching for it after you’ve had one or more orgasms. The urethral sponge will have swelled, making it easier and more pleasurable to find.
    You can add another dimension to your love life by opting to stimulate it more. When you masturbate, go for both clitoral and vaginal stimulation, using a finger or special curved dildo to touch the spot. If