Free Sex Secrets of an American Geisha by Py Kim Conant Page A

commentary regarding the latest fashions. Be inspired by what you see as you put together your own wardrobe.
You’ll also buy clothes that are appropriate to your interests and to the socioeconomic environment in which you seek to find your Good Man. Are you outdoorsy (and do you want him to be, too)? Is the theater more your interest? Are you a big-city girl? Small town? Happiest on the farm? Like sports cars or drive a pickup? Wine-tasting events? Art exhibit openings? Love baseball? Prefer tennis at the club? So many possible interests, so many possible men to meet through those interests, and so many wardrobe choices to make based on those (your!) interests.
Whatever the label might say, your goal with your clothes is to high light your best physical attributes (say, your long, toned, bony back), while masking your weak spots (say, your lower legs). Thus, you might opt for a vertically striped, tight top that hugs your back and ribs, and pair it with full-length, narrow-cut pants. The options are literally countless. Just be sure you know your best physical attributes and dress to attract attention to them. Likewise, be aware of your less beautiful endowments and dress to downplay them. Finally, remember this basic: Dress with a sense of class.
As you think about increasing your sexy femininity, remember that simply by becoming more beautiful and dressing more beautifully, you will tend to encourage men to think of you as more feminine and sexier. Once again, it is that strong connection between beauty, femininity, and sexiness. Fortu nately, then, when you work on any one of these three aspects of yourself, you receive the bonus of positive change in the other two areas. I do not want you to think of beauty, femininity, and sexiness as three separate and discrete dimensions of yourself. Instead, as many of my research respon dents seemed to do, allow yourself to dissolve the boundaries between the three, and see them combined into what I call your Geisha Attractiveness.
I’ve mentioned that having a sense of class is important. Let me be more specific. Everything you do to attract appropriate Good Men should be done with attention paid to the tasteful and refined image that you want to put forth. A Good Man may or may not have money, a great job, or so cial standing, but he does have the basic characteristic of dealing with the world in a higher-class way. He operates with honesty, integrity, and kind ness. You always want to attract this type of man, and you will do so if you display your beauty, femininity, and sexiness within the context of being a woman with class. Put another way, an American Geisha always engages in the classy behavior of a Good Woman, thereby attracting the appropriate attention of an equally classy Good Man.
You can easily imagine how “class” can be associated with beauty and with feminine behavior. The more difficult association is probably between overt sexiness and class. To begin with, let us remember not to separate beauty, femininity, and sexiness. Instead, let’s mix your three-part Geisha Attractiveness with classiness and see how you can set yourself apart from the competition. I’ll use just one example from that last long list of what re spondents found sexy and feminine: “Her clothing slightly reveals some of her body.” When you dress this way, you will be perceived as being sexy, feminine, and beautiful; all three aspects of your Geisha Attractiveness will be on display.
The Asian Geisha must be very careful to do this in a tasteful way or she risks putting off her very class-conscious clients and developing a reputation for inappropriate, unclassy behavior. For you as an American Geisha the situation is similar. You, too, want to attract and satisfy classy men, not so you can build your business but so you can eventually attract the right Good Man to you, fall in love, and marry. Let me suggest a few possible ways to implement “revealing some of your body” with the