ever-changing process, and your intuition is your most helpful asset.
âLouis Borgenicht, M.D
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Introduction
Nothing brings a smile to a mother or fatherâs face faster than the cherubic look of their sleeping baby. And nothing brings on the tears like an overtired, not-so-cherubic child who canât, or wonât, go to sleep.
I should know. I spent the first couple of years of my babiesâ lives in a twilight daze brought on by lack of sleepâtheirs and mine. Even with a couple of academic degrees in child development, I didnât have a clue how to get my little angels off to snoozeville; that elusive secret simply wasnât covered in the clinical textbooks I had studied.
It wasnât until I began teaching parenting classes that I learned the sleep secrets held only by the real experts: experienced parents. I started collecting the tips they shared, knowing there were a lot of droopy-eyed parents out there searching for help. When it came timeto write this book, I had more than 200 parent-approved suggestions! How could I not share these wonderful tips with other night-zombie parents when I had them at my fingertips?
Whether youâre expecting your first child (congratulations!) or enjoying the birth of your second, third, or tenth (goodness!), sleep can feel like a big challenge, for both you and your child. But it doesnât have to be. With these tried-and-true (and even a little wacky) tips, sleep can be all itâs supposed to be: hours upon hours of restful bliss. Sound like a dream?
Rock-a-Bye Baby
makes it a reality.
Youâll find in this book everything from parentsâ and grandparentsâ time-tested wisdom to recommendations from credentialed pediatricians and child-development specialists. Thereâs certainly no shortage of advice. The trick is to make your way through it all,try many different pointers, and find the few that suit your and your babyâs lifestyle and routine. Because, trust me, everyone has an opinion about what works best! Itâs the rare parent who doesnât get an earful of sleep tips from well-meaning family and friends, not to mention the glut of parenting magazines, blogs, and online support groups. Here youâll find all the tips youâll need from a variety of sources, conveniently gathered in one place so youâre never stuck searching for an answer in moments of exhaustion.
Sure, the sleep issue can be overwhelming, but thereâs no reason to despair. Trust your instincts about which of these suggestions are best for you and your baby. Because while doctors are certainly trustworthy sourcesâtheyâre experts for a reason, and their advice is worth a tryâperhaps no one has more expertise than parents, who have earned their MOM. or DAD.degree as late-night sleep consultants. Theyâve walked a mile in your slippers and tend to have the most helpful, practical advice.
When you need a hand, dip into this book. The tips are arranged by theme so you can search for targeted advice. Theyâre also short and sweet, so you can flip to a random page for instant suggestions at frantic moments. Itâs like having your own personal baby nurseâminus the exorbitant price tag, of course. Many tips may be new to youâbouncing on the exercise ball, climbing up and down stairs, wrapping up a ticking clockâand some will be familiarârocking your baby in a sling, taking him for a ride in the car, singing her a lullabyâbut each one is worth trying. You never know what will work this time, so donât rule out anything.
And remember: Not all babies, and not all parents, are the same. So despite all the knowing advice in this book, paying attention to your babyâs moods andtemperament is the best way to learn her sleeping patterns. Understanding these patterns will help you get to the bottom of why she might not be falling asleep easily. While some babies are more wakeful and others