staring at the wall, at a photo of an emperor colony. Our beers slosh as I put them down on the table, and I tumble into my seat.
Finally he turns to me. âRemember the other dayâyou told me how penguins that fail to breed will sometimes choose new partners.â
For a long moment, I canât comprehend what heâs telling me.
âIt was our first child,â he says. âOnly child.â
He takes a long drink, and I try to remember how many rounds weâve had. âShe died,â he says. âCar accident.â
I donât know what to say. He is very drunk, and heâs talking far more than he ever has, yet his body remains still, lean and almost statuesque in the chair. âI thought we might try to have another baby,â he says. âBut she decided to try another husband.â
âJust like that?â As I look at Keller through the barâs haze of cigarette smoke, Iâm finding it impossible to imagine anyone walking away from him so easily.
âJust like the birds,â he says with a harsh laugh. âI canât blame her.â
I want to touch him then, but I donât move.
He shifts in his seat and pushes his hair off his forehead in a slow, tired motion. âIt was my fault,â he says. âAlly was nineteen months old. Britt, my wifeâshe went back to work after Allyâs first birthday, and we took turns dropping her off at day care, picking her up. I was supposed to pick her up that afternoon, but a meeting got rescheduled. I called our babysitter, Emilyâa grad student who took care of Ally from time to time. Ally loved her. I even bought an extra car seat so Emily could take her places. She used to joke we were killingher love life, with a baby seat in her car. It was this crappy old subcompact. If only Iâd bought her a new car instead.â
He reaches for his beer, but he doesnât pick it up, doesnât drink. âI had my phone off during the meeting. I went home and no one was thereâno Ally, no babysitter, no Britt. Then I turned on my phone.â
His hand tightens around the glass. âI went to Childrenâs,â he says, âbut she was gone. A driver on a cell phone had run a red light and slammed into the back, on Allyâs side. Emily survived. Britt blamed me more than anyone. I was the one who shouldâve been there.â
I reach over and touch his hand, still wrapped around the glass, his skin rough and wind-chapped, and I think of how Antarctica toughens you up, how maybe this was what he wantedâmaybe this is what we all wantâto build calluses over old wounds.
He turns slightly in his chair, leaning almost imperceptibly closer to me. âIt didnât fall apart all at once,â he says. âItâs strange, how people disappear. No one likes to talk about itâas if it might be catching. Our friends, Brittâs and mine, didnât know what to doâI mean, all of a sudden, we didnât have kids who played together anymore. My sister was the only one who would listen, really listen. Sheâs the only one who calls me on Allyâs birthday. The only one who invited us over for dinner on the first anniversary of her death, so we wouldnât have to be alone. Sheâs good that way, like my mom was. Everyone elseâthey seemed to want to pretend it never happened.â
He lifts his shoulders in a shrug. âBritt and I tried to make the marriage work. She couldnât move onâor didnât want to. We didnât last much more than a year. After she left, I triedto immerse myself in work.â He looks down into his beer. âWhen we were together, when Ally was alive, the days always seemed too shortâthere was never enough time to fit it all in. Then, all of a sudden, every day was endless. Nothing seemed to matter anymore. I wanted to escapeâlike Britt had, I guess. But she only went as far as Vermont.â
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