disappear. She didnât know yet.
I remember the moments before he told her, thinking to myself, The second my mother knows it will all become real. My hell, my pain, the reality of my shame will begin. I donât know why that was true, but it was. She sat down in an overstuffed chair in the living room, keeping on her coat. Maybe she didnât think sheâd need to stay long. I was on the couch and my dad was in another big chair, and we formed a triangle. Farrah Fawcett sashayed into the room wearing a short flowery dress and cowboy boots. Oh God, I thought, sheâs here in front of my mom. She smiled and offered us beverages. I could barely watch. My mother managed a soft Katharine Hepburn âHelllllloo.â There was a framed picture of my dad, the wife, and the wifeâs four-year-old daughter on the table next to the couch. Dorothy noticed it and then looked back out the window. It was excruciating: to watch my mom seeing my dad together with his new wife, seeing their home, their contentment together.
Lee wasted no time. He wore his blue-and-white pin-striped Brooks Brothers button-down, khaki pants, and soft leather loafers,and had his vodka with a splash of soda next to him on the table. He looked at my momâeverything about him attractiveâand began, âDorothy, our daughterâthe daughter you live with every single day of your lifeâis more than four months pregnant.â There was a long pause. My mother didnât move. My dad continued, never raising his voice: âHow in the world can that be? Do you see nothing? You donât know when or if your own daughter gets her period, or gains weight, or throws up? What the hell is going on in that house?â
My mom was staring past Farrah Fawcett, out the huge plate glass windows; her face was surrendered, her eyes blank. Kate was uncomfortably messing with the tray of drinks. I could not hold back the tears. The tears came for a million reasons: I was pregnant, it was now indisputably real, and my father was torturing my mother, stabbing her with a horrible knife of blame, turning it over and over again. I couldnât believe what was happeningâand all because of me. I let out an audible cry. My mother turned to me with a look Iâd never seen and a voice Iâd rarely heard, strong and cold.
âPull yourself together, Liz, and stop crying.â Then, with what Iâm sure was the last shred of dignity she could find, she politely asked Farrah Fawcett to leave the room.
Kate stood up and said, âOf course.â
Lee went on. âIt took my wife one day, Dorothy, one day of being around Liz to ask her if she might be pregnant. Youâve had seven children, for Christâs sake. What kind of a mother does this?â
I wanted to die. The room was still. I was choking back everything that wanted to come out. I wanted to say, But, Dad, I was in a bathing suit on the boat, sheâs been seeing me in winter coats. Thatâs not fair . . . But then my mother, with seamless composure, answered, âPerhaps, Lee, if Liz had a father in her life, one who showed up more than one Sunday a month, who cared about her more than himself and hadnât deserted his family, she wouldnât feel the need to be having sex . As far as the kind of mother I am, Iimagine the answer to that is not going to change the fact that she is pregnant. It would be wise for us to figure out what to do here, Lee, rather than cast stones.â
Her eloquence floored me. But then my dad continued.
âThe doctor has informed us that an abortion is out of the question,â Lee said. âShe is too far along; it would endanger her life, so that is off the table.â
âWhat doctor, Lee?â
âMy wifeâs doctor, who saw Liz this morning.â
She responded, âI see.â
Shit. Now Dorothy was going to think Iâd confided in Farrah Fawcett. She was going to imagine I trusted