until itâs not hot anymore, then draining out the water, turning the hot water back on, and taking an even longer bath.
But I already did that! I took the worldâs longest bath! By the time I got out, my fingers and toes were crinkly. (Iâm lucky Pip didnât want to shower right after me, because when I use up all the hot water, she loses all perspective.)
The thing is, itâs upsetting to have people upset with me. I wish I could wash away the bad feelings!
And itâs hard to have âperspective,â because I mostly see things through my own two eyes. Doesnât everyone?
Yesterday at school, it felt like all eyes were on me. Like I was at the eye of a storm.
A-V-A, E-Y-E?
2/21
LATE AFTERNOON
DEAR DIARY,
Dad made his famous Irish breakfast, and Pip told us she dreamed that Z Is for Zinnia won an award. I said I dreamed that some big kids were about to beat me up.
âOh, honey,â Mom said.
Later I went to Maybelleâs, and we watched a Disney movie. That helped take my mind off my troublesâexcept for the part in Beauty and the Beast when the whole town just assumes that Beast is terrible when he isnât.
I decided to ask Maybelle about her sleepover with Kelli and Zara.
She said it was fun. At least she didnât say, âIt was sooooo much fun!â Maybelle knows it hasnât been easy for me to watch her become friends with Zara, and now with Zaraâs friend Kelliâa.k.a. myâ¦enemy? My riva l ?
âWhat did you guys do?â I asked.
âWe watched a movie and went to the Great Wall,â she said. (That made me extra glad that my family didnât go!) Maybelle looked up and added, âI will say this: Kelliâs mom is a littleââ
âA little what?â
Maybelle hesitated. âWell, letâs just say she let us watch a movie that our parents and Zaraâs grandparents would never have let us watch. It was about a teenage girl who likes a boy who is a bad influence. And Kelliâs mother, Candiââ
âCandy?â
âCandi with an i !â
âGo on.â
âShe watched part of it with us and actedâ¦inappropriate.â
âWhat do you mean? You have to tell me!â
âShe said when she was our age, she wanted to be bigger, you know, up top. And she showed us this exercise she used to do with her friends. Theyâd kick back their arms and chant, âWe must, we must, we must build up the bust. The bigger, the better, the tighter the sweater, the boys will look at us!ââ
âOmigod!â
âI know!â
âWhat did you and Zara do?â
âWhat could we do?â
âDidnât Kelli make her stop? Or tell her she was being, I donât know, sexist and sizist andâ¦weird?â
âI donât think Kelli realized how weird it was. All she said was, âDid it work?ââ
âWhat did her mom say?â
âOf course not.â
âDo you call her Candi?â
âOf course not!â Maybelle repeated.
I nodded and thought, My mom may not be the huggiest mom in the world, but at least sheâs not embarrassing with a capital E.
Back home, Mom was reading in bed and said, âCome in,â so I did. I even got in next to her. She asked me what had caused âall the fussâ at school. So I told her that Tanya got laughed at in assembly, and I got ostracized (spelling word) in the cafeteria. She asked me to show her the Tanya Tips, so I did, explaining that I hadnât called anyone âfat,â and Rorie had taken everything personally.
Mom nodded, and for a second, I wished she would give me a big hug and say all the right words like TV moms do. But Mom isnât like that. Her mom, Nana Ethel, isnât either.
Hereâs what Mom did say: âPeople get very sensitive about this subject. Itâs a minefield. Even Dr. Gross has to be supercareful when he tells clients that their