canât work
here in Jordan, and she doesnât know how to protect us.
My stepfather comes over whenever he feels like it. He has a key, of
course, since he pays the rent. Heâll come inand say,
âIâm hungry. Go cook for me.â And he said that heâs paid for the
rent for another few months, and when those months are up, he wonât pay any more,
and we can sleep on the street.
One time he stood out in the street in front of the building and yelled up
terrible things at us, insulting things, using bad, terrible curse words.
My brother and I are very good students. My mother had to borrow money to
pay our school fees, and she doesnât know how she will pay it back, but she says
our education is the most important thing. Without it we will have no hope. My brother
is very smart at English and computers. My teacher actually said to my mother,
âMay God bless you for having such a daughter and for bringing her into my
classroom.â
So we are all smart people, and should have good futures ahead of us, but
so much seems to be beyond our control. My mother doesnât have an independent
income, and my stepfather is unstable. We are one tantrum away from being thrown out and
having nowhere to live.
I guess I would say to American girls my age the same thing I would say to
any girls anywhere. Itâs the same thing my mother says to me. Be strong and
arrange your life so that you can look after yourself, no matter what. Donât rely
on a man, even if you fall in love. The man could die or go crazy, and then where would
you be?
Abdullah, 13
Fallujah, a city located not far from Baghdad on the Euphrates
River, has seen a great deal of fighting that has taken many American and Iraqi
lives. During battles in 2004, hundreds of thousands of Iraqis fled the city, and
when they returned, many of their homes had been bombed so badly they were no longer
fit places to live. There was sewage in the streets from pipes being blown up, no
electricity or clean water, and no one to bury the corpses that rotted in empty
buildings.
During the battles, US forces fired white phosphorus shells at
insurgents. These shells burst into flame on impact, starting fires that canât
be put out with water and causing widespread burn injuries among civilians.
Abdullahâs fatherâs family comes
from Fallujah. He has moved many times since leaving Iraq. His family fled to Jordan
when they were threatened by the Mehdi Army, a Shia militia.
We came to Jordan because the Mehdi Army said to my father,
âWe will kill your son and daughter if you donât leave Iraq.â They
wanted to kill me because I am Sunni.
My friends were very good in Iraq. Leaving them was difficult. Their names
are Athere and Osama. We loved to play football and basketball and go swimming.
I am in grade seven here in Jordan. All the teachers are good, and the
other students are also good. No problems.
Baghdad is beautiful, or it used to be. Any place is beautiful when your
friends and family are there. I was there during all the bombing. I didnât like it
at all, but I was not scared. I was not brave. I was angry. The bombing made me very
angry. I didnât know why they were doing this. Why should people be allowed to do
such things? I donât understand.
I saw a lot of American soldiers. They were screaming and doing nothing. I
mean, they were standing around a lot with their guns, not working. I was a child when
all this happened. I donât remember well, because I was in grade one.
I do remember a bit about our life before the Americans came. We had more
water and more electricity, and no one was killing other people.
After the Americans came, one of my friends was killedin the car park of my school. His name was Mohammad. I heard the explosion, and I
saw the blood, and my friend was killed. I donât know if it was a