Lizbet was older, so she expected to become Tueloâs wife. This suited her fine, since she was secretly in love with him. But Tuelo chose Auntie Amanthe instead.
Auntie Lizbet blames this on why she never got to marry. (Mamaâs too kind to say so, but the real reason is Auntieâs club-foot. Building huts, fetching water, and chasing children keeps wives on their feet, especially at cattle posts. The men in Tiro were just being practical. Or maybe they didnât like the idea of being stuck with a toad. Those are hard truths for Auntie Lizbet to swallow. Instead, she blames her life on Mama. Does bad luck make people miserable? Or do miserable people bring bad luck?)
Anyway, right after the wedding, Auntie Amanthe got pregnant. The baby got stuck inside. They had to cut into her belly to get it out. Auntie Amanthe bled to death; the baby was stillborn. At the funeral, Mama was shunned. Auntie Lizbet said what people were thinking: âIt should have been you.â
After that, whenever anything went wrong Mama got blamed: sheâd shamed her parents and dishonored the ancestors. Traditional doctors came to Granny and Grampa Thelaâs post to take away the evil. But no matter how often they came, Mamaâs sin wastoo great. The next time there was a problem, Mama was blamed again.
Mama strokes my hair. âThatâs why we didnât go back to Tiro. I wouldnât live in a place where people said we got what we deserved.â
We sit still for a long time. Then I say: âGranny and Grampa donât really believe in spirit doctors, do they?â
Mama thinks about this for a long time. âThereâs what people believe,â she says, tapping her head. âAnd thereâs what they
believe
.â She taps her heart. I look down.
Mama lifts my head and cups it in her hands. âEveryone believes in something,â she says. âWell, hereâs what
I
believe. Thereâs no sin in love. What your papa and I did was good. It brought you into the world. And I wouldnât change that for anything.â
PART TWO
14
I TâS JUST BEFORE DAYBREAK. Iâm sitting on the floor at the foot of Mamaâs bed. Iâve been doing this for three months now, ever since the funeral.
Three months. Saraâs funeral feels like yesterday and forever all at once. When I come home from school I still expect to see her. In my head, I know sheâs gone. But in my heart, well, thatâs something else again.
Everythingâs changed. Once I knew every pore of Saraâs face. Now I donât know anything. I stare at Mr. Batemanâs Polaroid of her in her coffin. It doesnât look like her. Or does it? I canât be sure. Why canât I remember? Whatâs wrong with me?
Friends are no help. Whenever I think lifeâs back to normal, one of them will ask, âHow are you doing?â and the pain roars back. Itâs like when I was up north in the delta, learning to polea mokoro through river reeds; the minute Iâd relax Iâd hit a patch of roots and capsize.
âPeople who ask âhow-are-you-doingâ arenât friends,â says Esther. âTheyâre scab-pickers. Nosy little scab-pickers. What they really want is to know you feel bad so they can feel superior.â
âThatâs not fair.â
âItâs true.â
Nights are the worst. I have horrible dreams. Such as: Sara is dying, but if I get her to the hospital right away sheâll be all right. I try to strap her in my bicycle basket, but she keeps falling out, and when I go to pick her up she slides through my hands. Time is disappearing, Sara is dying, itâs all my fault.
I wake up in a cold sweat, but being awake is no better. I toss and turn, panicking about time and life and what is the point of anything. Mostly, though, I hurt myself about Sara. Why did I hate her for screaming? Why did I wish sheâd stop? Why didnât I rock her