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out after we had a terrible argument.  I was destroyed at that point. That is when I met your grandfather. I tried to love again but it is very difficult. So it is important to discuss things that can ruin the relationship and the self-esteem of the other person.
    MADISON
    Should your lover be your best friend?
    DADIE
    This question has to be answered with another question. What is your definition of a best friend?
    MADISON
    A best friend to me is someone who can keep your secrets and not hold them against you. Even though you keep doing the same dumb thing over and over and over again they still come to your aid. They love you no matter what.
    DADIE
    So to answer this question you need to talk to Trenity and see if that is what a best friend is to him.  Communication is the key to success in a relationship.  That means having a similar mind set.
    GRANDMOTHER ELLA
    Okay Dadie, since you are the guru of relationships, when you are upset and have a concern, should you keep it to yourself, talk with another close friend, or talk with your husband?
    DADIE
    I am going to charge you both for my advice. This question can be answered after that other question. If you have a best friend that loves you no matter what then you can talk to them.  But make sure that they have no feelings for you. You know, wanting a relationship with you themselves.  Sometimes that friend will do anything for you but make sure that they keep your happiness in mind.  But you must, no matter what the issue, always talk to your husband.  I have a habit of always using interrogation tactics. You know, meaning to ask questions until they actually tell the truth or I get tired.  When a person is not telling the truth, they say things that do not make sense or add up.  If it doesn't fit logically then I need to keep asking questions.
    MADISON
    What about leaving the house at 8, 9, or 10 o'clock at night saying that he is going to the store? He knew that he would be out of cigarettes before night fall-shouldn't he have gone earlier that day?
    GRANDMOTHER ELLA
    Well it would make sense to go earlier... but sometimes he may have forgotten. 
    MADSION
    I just feel pathetic. I had seen signs before but I wanted to keep my marriage. I want to stay with him and make it work. But another part of me is saying that I can’t satisfy him.
    DADIE
    Don't feel that you are being pathetic.  You have genuine feelings. But you also have to realize that in a relationship you agree to commit to your spouse. He should be everything you need.  If you have freaky desires or if he does, then talk about them.  If you can treat each other with respect before and after you make your fantasies come true, then it may be worth doing.  When was the last time you surprised him with an all night fuck session or at least for however long you could stand it? When was the last time y’all shared an intimate moment?  My definition of intimate is going out to dinner or a movie, a long walk in the park, writing poetry, or cooking in the nude.  If he seem uninterested then try doing those things that got him interested in the beginning again.  You seem like a very compassionate person young lady.  Love is not hard to find…but it is hard to keep.  There is always someone offering something different...that will never change.  You have to find someone that will love you...grow in love with you...and stay with you forever.  That's not impossible to achieve it's just a real struggle sometimes.  I know what I want and I know what to do.  But I can't seem to find someone that wants me.  But like me...be patient and love will find a home in you.
    GRANDMOTHER ELLA
    Dadie?
    DADIE
    Humm?
    GRANDMOTHER ELLA
    Hush. Let me go check to see if they have finished moving Landon.

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    NOAH
    You tripped me out last night on the phone saying that I fucked your brains out.
    TRENITY
    Yeah you did. Even though we got caught, it is crucial that we keep to ourselves in this relationship.