was fun while it lasted.
We have since moved on to a custom made metal device that allows me access to his member through the “bars” and it only causes him pain when his penis tries to become fully erect. So during our tease sessions, I have the choice of removing it or teasing him while it is secured in place. It all depends on how much I tease him, and in what ways, as to how much pain or pleasure he actually receives. Now, on to more things you can do with a chastity device in place.
If you decide to sexually tease your partner while he is wearing his chastity device, I recommend one that allows you access to the sides and tip of his penis. You can stimulate him with your fingers, fingernails, a Q-Tip, a toothpick, or any other small device of your choosing. I like to take a toothpick and poke his penis and balls. I vary the pressure with each little jab to keep him on his toes, so to speak. You can use a cotton tipped swab (Q-Tip) to tickle him as well. Your fingernails dragging along the side of his penis will also get his attention. And don't forget about the erotic power of your own body. Your breasts, your ass, and even your vagina can be used to turn him on. The more you do to arouse him, the harder his penis will try to force its way to full erection. Depending on the fit of his cage, this can cause him mild to severe pain. Some men are even aroused by this pain, so you may want to do a little experimentation.
Most men who enjoy wearing a chastity device also enjoy being reminded that it's there. That is, every time they get the slightest bit aroused, things get a little uncomfortable. Not necessarily painful, but enough to make them aware of their growing condition. So any time you can find a way to arouse him, even just a little bit, it would be good for both of you to take advantage of it. He will probably enjoy the feelings and, if you are the one causing those feelings, he will be reminded that you are in control. Something of which he will always enjoy being reminded.
There are numerous games you can play involving chastity that will make things more interesting for the both of you. For example, you might have your chaste partner roll a pair of dice to determine such things as when he might get an opportunity for release, both from his little prison and sexually. Let's take a look at some of those games, shall we?
If you enjoy tormenting your partner (sexually, that is) and you want to have some fun with him while he is in chastity, try having him roll a single die (or a pair if you prefer) with various outcomes depending on the number he rolls. Suppose you make the roll of a single die determine whether or not he gets to ejaculate that day. Maybe a roll of “1” on the die says he can if he can masturbate to orgasm in one minute. A roll of “6” means that he has six minutes to make the attempt. Of course, with some men, one minute would be more than enough time. If he seems to be getting too many ejaculations, change the rules. Maybe he only gets to make the attempt if he rolls a “1” or a “2” and any other roll gets him something entirely different.
As the female in your new FLR, the choice of how the game is played, and what the consequences of any particular roll of the die (or dice) is up to you. Be creative. You can use anything that your agreement allows. Maybe he gets a swat on the bottom for each number on the die if he doesn't roll a “1.” Or maybe, each roll that is not a winning number (say “6”) means he has to wait that many days before he gets to roll the die again.
My point is, playing with the time he spends in chastity is a very good way to make it more fun for the both of you. You can play dice games, card games, have him pull a marble out of a bag, or even play your favorite board game. Just make certain that there is a way for him to win (no matter how slim the chance) and that he understands the consequences of losing. The more fun you make it, the more
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