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to ejaculate, then you might need a chastity device. It is a great way to prevent unauthorized masturbation or even nighttime emissions.
    Let's take a look at some of the pro's and con's of male chastity. Certainly, a male chastity device of almost any kind will prevent masturbation. But do you need to? Will you be wanting to control his masturbatory habits? Maybe he doesn't normally masturbate. Then, again, if you are going to be using tease and denial to aid in controlling his behavior, he just might develop a masturbation problem. If he does, then you will certainly want to use some kind of device to prevent that. So, masturbation (or orgasm) control is a pro.
    If your partner would have a need for the device to be removed often, perhaps because of his job, or  a medical condition, then you might not want to use a chastity device. Of course, if he travels a great deal, especially by air, you would want to use a device that would be less likely to cause problems getting through airport security (or not?). There are many considerations to be made when deciding whether to use a chastity device or not. Maybe your partner would actually relish the idea of having to wear such a device in situations where he might have to reveal the fact, even have to show it off. High travel might be a con for you.
    Many men actually do enjoy being controlled with the use of a chastity device. They love the feeling it gives them knowing that their partner, and only their partner, holds the key. There are actually professional key holders who do little more than keep a man's chastity key so that he can get those feelings of being controlled, even though he has no partner to tease him or even gratify his sexual desires. Put simply, it's a submissive thing.
    Some of the less obvious drawbacks to using any kind of a chastity device are:
    They can sometimes cause irritation to the penis or balls.
    They can sometimes be detected even under loose-fitting trousers.
    Chastity devices can be expensive (even the 'cheap' ones).
    Keys can become lost.
    Though they prevent erection, an attempted erection can be painful (not always a bad ting).
    Murphy's law... If anything can go wrong, it will.
     
    On the plus side:
    A chastity device will prevent masturbation.
    They can prevent erection if properly fitted.
    Many men love wearing them for their partner.
    They can provide peace of mind.
    He will always know who is in charge!
     
    Basically, the decision is up to the female partner, but you should at least hear his views on the subject before running out to the nearest sex shop to purchase one. Many couples use male chastity on a part-time basis. That is, they use it to enhance their sexual experience for awhile, and then go for a few weeks or months without it. How you choose to use male chastity in your relationship is a personal matter. Decide between yourselves if, and how, you want to use a chastity device and then choose the device that is right for you.
    So which male chastity device is right for you? That's a personal matter, but there are many types and styles from which to choose. For example, if you are just wanting to experiment to see if it is something you might like to do on a more permanent basis, I would suggest you look for an inexpensive model to get you started. Once you have used it for awhile, you can decide whether you want to do it on a more permanent basis.
    There are several plastic models on the market for those who do a great deal of traveling. With the use of special plastic locks, airport security is less of a problem. However, I don't recommend plastic if you plan to use chastity as a long-term activity. Plastic models can break and often cause a great deal pain when they do. They also tend to leave less air space which can cause chaffing. They don't chafe every man who uses one, but just be aware of the possibility. Also, reduced access for play might be something to put you off the plastic models. There is less access to his