lower my head and think, Why does my mother want to do this harvesting when she is so gravely ill? Why?
For us, of course. So that we donât have to lead a life like hers.
Monday, July 16
Fine weather
This morning while we were scything the wheat in the fields, my legs suddenly began to ache horribly. I sat down for a moment.
My mother started in on me. âReally, Ma Yan. Youâre exaggerating!â
My little brother Ma Yiting rubs it in. âAll students exaggerate. Look at our other comrade over there. It takes her half an hour just to get up!â
And my mother adds, âEven if that girlâs exaggerating, sheâs brought honor on her family. Sheâs succeeded in her exam. Youâ¦you disappoint me too much.â
At that moment tears Iâm not even aware of start pouring down my cheeks. They wonât stop. My mother is always extreme in her comments. She says things, then repeats them, then insists on them. How to bear it all?
I mustnât resent her. At heart Iâm only angry at myself. If I had gotten into the girlsâ school, she wouldnât have spoken such hurtful words. She has her own problems. If she works hard, itâs so that we can go to school.
In the village Iâm good at a great many things, and few of the children can do better than me. Thatâs why my mother counted on my getting into the best school. But I let her down. How could she not be disappointed in me? She must be very upset.
Saturday, July 28
A fine day
This afternoon around three oâclock my mother is so ill, she canât even get up. My brother and I give her some medicine to ease her pain. We rub her stomach with a cream. We havenât finished when my cousin Ma Yiwu, the son of my fatherâs eldest brother, arrives.
This youth of twenty-five has completed a degree from a technical school, but heâs having trouble finding work. He says that work in a successful business is bought with bribes and corruption.
He comes in and sits down at the edge of the bed. He looks bothered. My mother asks him if heâs found work. My cousin answers, âItâs easy to find work, but you have to pay for it under the table. If I had two thousand yuan, I could get into a company. The problem is money. My family has no money. In a few days Iâm going off and will get any old job. When Iâve earned enough money, then Iâll buy myself into a proper position.â
Iâm sitting on the stool and I notice that his eyes have filled with tears. When I see his hair, already going white, and his tortured face, my heart breaks. Why is it that the children of two generations of soldiers canât find work? Today the grandson of a military hero has a degree, but no money, and as a result canât find a job. Are the heavens blind? Do they only know how to take care of the most wicked people? Are they mocking the lives and deaths of good people? Itâs all so unjust.
I donât know where my cousin went off to. I hope heâll find a good job soon. It will make me incredibly happy for him.
Monday, July 30
A fair day
This afternoon, when I want to start writing in my diary, I canât find my pen. I ask my brothers. No, they havenât seen it. I look for it in the place where I was doing my writing yesterday, and it isnât there either. I ask my mother. She says that yesterday she noticed that I had left my pen and notebook on the bed and she was worried that theyâd get lost, so she put them away in the drawer. But my pen isnât there. Iâm distraught.
Youâre probably going to start laughing. âA pen. What a little thing to get so distressed about!â
If only you knew the trouble I had to take to get that pen. I saved up my pocket money for two weeks. Some of my comrades have two or three pens, but I had none and I couldnât resist buying one.
The difficulties I faced in getting this pen are a mirror of all my other