Sheâs the best bet to approach under these circumstances. Because of his conviction that sheâs going to make the future what she wants it to be, Aries is seldom bothered or concerned by the past. Yours or hers.
The Mars executive is too proud to let others know theyâve hurt her. In spite of quick outbursts of temper (which wonât last long or be vindictive, and will be forgotten as soon as theyâre over), she will hide quite well those things which truly affect her deeply. The ram wonât admit her dependence on anyone but herself. She does need othersâfar more than she will ever admit, but his strength comes from inside, and she can always find a way of going it alone when she must.
If you can admire her energy and courage, though you find it impossible to imitate; if you can make up for his impulsive, slapdash ways by patiently filling in the details sheâs overlooked in haste (and do this unobtrusively), sheâll probably pay you more money than you can make anywhere else and youâll be with her for life. Tactfully attempt to keep her from doing or saying rash things sheâll regret later. Remind her gently that those to whom she directs his temporary righteous anger may be Very Important People and they could react in a way which will hurt his business if she alienates them.
Thatâs the important thing to remember about your Aries boss. In spite of her great independent spirit, when her idealistic, optimistic enthusiasm gets her in over her head, she really needs your help, faith and loyalty. Give these to her in abundance and youâll never find a pink slip in your pay envelope. You wonât have to worry when missing a taxi in rainy weather makes you late for work, if you need an extra weekâs vacation time for an operationâor about someone younger and more efficient replacing you. More than any other kind of boss, sheâll repay loyalty with loyalty. Keep a full supply of aspirin in the desk drawer for frequent emergencies, polish up your smile, donât take his outbursts seriouslyâand you can forget about online job searches. Youâll want to stay where the action is.
The ARIES Employee
âI said it very loud and clear
I went and shouted in his ear
And when I found the door was locked
I pulled and pushed and kicked and knockedâ¦.â
âBut itâs no use going back to yesterday
Because I was a different person then.â
A job interview with a prospective Aries employee, if heâs a typical ram, might run something like this:
EMPLOYER: I see from your resume and references that youâve been with six different firms in the past two years, Mr. Bootsikaris.
ARIES: Call me Charlie, Mr. Flaxman. Yes, I believe in trying to advance myself. When you outgrow a job, whatâs the point of staying in a position where thereâs nothing more you can learn and nothing more you can contribute to the company?
EMPLOYER: Thatâs just what bothers me, Charâuh, Mr. Bootsikaris. Iâm afraid you may outgrow us in a short time, also, after weâve spent the money to train you.
ARIES: I thought that might concern you. But you donât have to worry. Iâve investigated your company, and Iâm sure I wouldnât feel restless, because I can see thereâs plenty of opportunity with you for anyone who really tries. Iâve always wanted to work with a really great, creative and progressive management. This kind of organization is so rare, Iâd rather wait âtil thereâs an opening here than go anywhere else.
Needless to say, the boss who can overcome her initial shock at such an unusual interview is likely to hire the Aries on the spot. That kind of sincere enthusiasm for the company is hard to come by these daysânever mind the abruptness and the superego.
Hiring an Aries can be the smartest move you ever made or the largest headache youâve ever known, depending on how you