much Eleanor was able to see although she is legally blind. She noticed all the changes in the library due to the fire and remembered the little ring of Netsuke round a bowl of shells, for instance. How can she see them, I wonder?
Elyce meanwhile was fascinated by Pierrot in one of his wilder moodsâwhat dismay when I found earlier that day an awful mess he had made in the corner of the library! I heard him scratching and rushed inâoh dear! I wish he would learn that the whole great outdoors is there for his purposes!
I wish I had something long, absorbing and rich to read! I have ordered Yeatsâ letters but they havenât come, but it adds to my feeling of being in limbo not to have anything to read. I thought I would reread V. Woolfâs The Years , but found it too depressingâthe too vivid account at first of the household where the wife and mother is dying upstairsânot what I need right now.
Today a last meeting with Fran and Royce who leave on Wednesday and are coming to take me out to lunch. Iâm glad to get away. My desk is a nightmare of the undone and will stay like that unless I can be well and write ten or twenty letters a day as I sometimes did on the week ends.
Tuesday, July 29
Hard to say good-by to Royce and Fran. When I got up from my nap around four I began to cry and couldnât stop. I feel as ill or worse than everâwith the fear hanging over me that they will refuse to do the operation because my heart isâor was last weekâin sync, due to the medicine. It is too ironic!
Dr. Petrovich has doubled my dose of Bumex because I pant so much.
But I did pick a funny little bunch of flowers for the house in the late afternoon: self-sown nicotiana, opium poppies, veronica, day lilies, Shasta daisies, âan artless bouquetâ as the interviewer from the Times described my indoor flowersâbut it was a real pleasure to do it and I must tell Karen so. She has soldiered on without enough interest or praise from me, I know, and she is so dear with Tamas, he will miss her. I shall feel forlorn when she goes back to Tucson on August fifteenth.
Thursday, July 31
I lay awake a long time last night listening to the rain, and thought how badly I have handled myself lately. Loneliness has taken over what used to be a vitalizing solitude, a pause between poetry readings and seeing many friends who used to come. Now I feel abandoned and desolateâand would like to miaow in the way Pierrot does now and then to say, âWhere are you? Iâm lonely!â
People, especially Janice, with all her nursing knowledge and compassionate spirit, have been as supportive as they could. But Anne and Barbara are far awayâeveryone after all has someone important, a jobâI become the extra effort in their full-to-capacity lives. And so, I must admit, I have been for years myself, the quick responder to cries of help, often from people I have never seen, but who write to me as a friend. One reason for my depression now is that I can no longer ârespondâ as I used to. I feel so cut off from what was once a self.
Everyone I know must be as sick and tired of this illness as I am.
People, friends, do come, and Nancyâs daily arrival at eight all week is of immeasurable comfort. She is so steady and so kind, it is a blessingâand she is very good to Tamas and the Wild Beast, Pierrot, too. On the days when she is not here, a sort of blackness takes over the house and me.
Of course what is lacking is the tangible âweâ when two people live together in amityâand at seventy-four I have to admit that the likelihood of its ever happening again is slight.
In spite of the gloom yesterday I made brownies, so all is not lost!
Friday, August 1
Back from lunch with Edythe to find a note from Nancy to say âprepare to be admitted to Phillips House on Saturday.â I called them of course. âWhy?â âBecause otherwise you might
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