been alleviated by morphine, but nothing indicates that the course of the disaster could have been reversed by any medical procedure short of euthanasia.
With Claire at my side I might have been able to cave in completely, but alone I suddenly felt ashamed of losing control; it was no more than five minutes since Iâd discovered the stain, and there I was, wet and nude on my leather sofa, trying vainly to overcome the tremolo in my voice as I looked down and described into the phone what I saw. Take hold, I thoughtâand so I took hold, as I can when I tell myself to. If it was what I feared, it could wait until morning; if it wasnât, it could also wait. I would be fine, I told the doctor. Exhausted from a hard dayâs work, I had just beenâstartled. I would see him in his office atâI thought this brave of meâabout noon. Nine, he said. I agreed and, calmly as I could, said good night.
Not until I hung up and examined myself yet again under a strong light did I remember that there was a third symptomâaside from the tingling groin, and the discolored penisâthat I had failed to mention to the doctor; I had taken it, until that moment, for a sign of health rather than of disease. This was the intensity of local sensation I had experienced at sex with Claire during the preceding three weeks. To me it had signaled the resurgence of my old desire for her; from where or why I did not even care to question, so thrilledâand so relievedâwas I to have it back. As it was, the strong lust her physical beauty had aroused in me during the first two years of our affair had been dwindling for almost a year now. Until lately, I would make love to her no more than two or three times a month and, more often than not, at her provocation.
My cooling downâmy coldnessâwas distressing to both of us, but as we both had endured enough emotional upheaval in our lives (she as a child with her parents, I as an adult with my wife), we were equally reluctant to take any steps toward dissolving our union. Dispiriting as it surely was for a lovely and voluptuous young woman of twenty-five to be spurned night after night, Claire displayed outwardly none of the suspicion or frustration or anger that would have seemed justified even to me, the source of her unhappiness. Yes, she pays a price for this equanimityâshe is not the most expressive woman I have ever known, for all her sexual passionâbut I have reached the stage in my lifeâthat is, I hadâwhere the calm harbor and its placid waters were more to my liking than the foaming drama of the high seas. Of course there were timesâout in company, or sometimes just alone over our dinnerâwhen I might have wished her livelier and more responsive, but I was far too content with her dependable sobriety to be disappointed in her for lacking color. I had had enough color with my wife.
Indeed, during the course of three years, Claire and I had worked out a way of living togetherâwhich in part entailed living separatelyâthat provided us the warmth and security of each otherâs affections, without the accompanying dependence, or the grinding boredom, or the wild, unfocused yearning, or the round-the-clock strategies of deception and placation which seemed to have soured all but a very few of the marriages we knew. A year back I had ended five years of psychoanalysis convinced that the wounds sustained in my own Grand Guignol marriage had healed as well as they ever would, and largely because of my life with Claire. Maybe I wasnât the man Iâd been, but I wasnât a bleeding buck private any longer, either, wrapped in bandages and beating the drum of self-pity as I limped tearfully into the analystâs office from that battlefield known as Hearth and Home. Life had become orderly and stableâthe first time I could say that in more than a decade. We really did get on so easily and with so little strain,
August P. W.; Cole Singer