keeping the house in order. âThere was a lot of tension.â
For the most part, they lived a quiet life. A homebody, Fox enjoyed staying in on weeknights. On weekends, they sometimes went out to dinner or with friends. When they did, they drank socially. If there was music, Ana loved to dance. And there were those nights when he wanted to leave, and she argued that they stay and close up the bar.
At the house, she decorated with her artwork, paintings and drawings she did on her days off. Jim paid for the house and other expenses, and Ana was responsible for thegroceries. More often than not, however, she ran out of funds before the end of the month. âSheâd take the girls shopping, and sheâd be overly generous,â Fox said. âShe went through money. After a while, I understood that it was just Ana, the way she was.â
Along with the heated discussions over money, there continued to be tension between Fox and Anaâs oldest, Siana, who would later say that she found her stepdad to be âanal.â Admitting that he could be fastidious about the house, Fox said his relationship with Anaâs oldest was strained, and she would later describe it as the two of them âbickering a lot.â
For the most part, Fox got along well with Anaâs family. He liked Trina, Gene, and Anaâs siblings, and they quickly meshed. When his son visited, Ana worked hard to connect with the boy, taking him places with her girls. When he left, she was generous with him as well, coaxing Jim into gifting his son with $20 for his wallet. âShe was a good woman, always concerned about others. She didnât cook much, so I did. Things were really normal,â Fox said later, thinking back to their marriage and trying to put the Ana he knew in context with the future that awaited her. âThere are things, well, yes there were problems, but the way she changed, thatâs something I still donât understand.â
Yet there were those issues from her growing-up years that seemed to haunt her. At times, Ana talked about all she believed sheâd missed out on from such a young age, charged as she was with looking after her younger siblings, saying sheâd been robbed of a childhood. On Sundays, Jim took the girls to church, but Ana refused. âAna hated churches,â he said. âShe talked about being a Jehovahâs Witness, and how she wasnât even allowed to play sports, how she said she was shunned by the other kids. Never celebrating holidays, even Christmas or her birthday. She said it ruined her childhood.â
Perhaps, then, it wasnât surprising when four years into the marriage, in January of 2006, when Jim Fox said he wanted to move to Houston to be closer to his son, Ana decidedto make changes as well. Once his transfer was approved, they drove the two hours into the city to find a home. On the shores of Lake Houston, Ana fell in love with Summerwood, a heavily treed subdivision cut from the forest, half an hour northeast of the city. The area was under construction, a brand-new development, and they picked out a lot on Baron Creek Lane. For the house, they chose a plan for a 3,100-square-foot, four-bedroom, two-story. The design had a stately look, with a column leading to a high arch over the front door.
Their home under construction until the fall, Ana didnât wait to give notice at Coca-Cola. Later, she said, âIâd worked all my life. My girls were getting older, and I wanted to be more flexible. I wanted a stress-free environment.â
For his part, Fox agreed to the plan when Ana laid it out. Sheâd been unhappy for months, complaining about one of the men at work. âI thought it was a little odd. Sheâd been at Coke about ten years,â Jim Fox said. âBut I didnât push.â
Rather than work at Coke, she enrolled in a school to become a massage therapist, her plan to open a studio close to their new home.