now. Not easy as in comfortable, but easy as in logical, natural, appropriate, right, no jerky changing of gear: Tom knows that something is up, I may well have to say something at sometime anyway, David may well tell them himself as soon as he comes home . . .
âTom! How many more times! And when are you going to get ready for school?â
He gives me a long stare and then turns violently on his heels to convey anger without disobedience. I want to go to the surgery and work and work. I want the day to be as unpleasant and as demanding as any working day has ever been, just so that at the end of it I will have regained something of myself. I want to look at blocked rectums and oozing warts and all sorts of things that would make the rest of the world sick to its collective stomach, and hope that by so doing I will feel like a good person again. A bad mother, maybe, and a terrible wife, undoubtedly, but a good person.
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On the way to work I have a sudden panic that Stephen will call the mobile, so I call him as soon as I get in and he wants to know whatâs happening and I donât want to talk about it and he asks to see me and I end up arranging to meet him and booking a babysitter.
âWhere are you going?â Tom asks when Iâm getting ready to go out.
âTo meet a friend for a drink.â
âWhat friend?â
âNo one you know.â
âYour boyfriend?â
Molly thinks this is one of the funniest lines she has ever heard, but Tom isnât joking. He wants me to answer the question.
âWhat are you talking about, Tom?â
Tom is beginning to give me the creeps. I feel that any momentnow he will be able to tell me Stephenâs name and describe what he looks like.
âWhatâs this friendâs name, then?â
âStephen.â
âWhatâs his wifeâs name?â
âHe hasnât got a . . .â Tricked by a ten-year-old. âHe hasnât got a wife. His girlfriendâs name is Victoria.â His girlfriendâs name is Victoria because there is a photograph of Victoria Adams and David Beckham on the front of a magazine lying on the kitchen table; if Tom had asked me this morning, when I wasnât feeling very sharp, I would have told him that Stephenâs girlfriendâs name was Posh.
âIs she going?â
âI hope so. Sheâs nice.â
âDo you think heâll marry her?â
âIâve no idea, Tom. Iâll ask him tonight, if you want.â
âYes please.â
âFine.â
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There is almost no point in talking about the rest of the evening, such is its dismal predictability. Stephen flatters me, I feel desired and stimulated, I see, as if for the first time, how unhappy my relationship with David makes me, and I go home wanting out. Oh and when I get home David is there waiting, and everything changes again.
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Iâm frightened when I see him sitting there, and initially the fear consoles me, because it surely means that my marriage is brutal, and that therefore the Archbishop of Canterbury will approve my divorce. But on further reflection I can see that brutality is a less likely explanation for my fear than other factors: the existence of Stephen, say, or my failure to talk to the kids about what has been going on, and I can feel the Archbishopâs approval vanish as quickly as it appeared.
âDid you have a nice evening?â David asks me. He says it quietly, and I take the quiet as menace.
âYes. Thank you. I went . . . I was out . . .â For some reasonIâm trying to remember the name of Stephenâs girlfriend until I remember she was a whole other lie told to someone else for different reasons.
âIt doesnât matter,â he says. âListen. I havenât loved you enough.â
I gape at him.
âI havenât loved you enough, and Iâm really sorry. I do love you, and I