said.
âOrientation.â
âI really donât mean to stick my nose in where itâs not welcome,â Mike said, raising an open palm. âItâs just that, you know, heâs my nephew.â
âWell, Iâm his mother.â
âAnd I totally respect that. But I was thinking that an outside voiceâfrom someone in the familyâmight be helpful. Iâm sure it took a lot of guts for Garth to tell you, and maybe thereâs room for him toââ
âMike,â she said, âI know you mean well, but donât overstep your bounds.â
âNo, no, no,â Mike said, holding up both hands now. âI donât mean to do that at all.â
âLisa has gay friends,â Garth suddenly blurted out.
His mom glared at him.
âShe even broke up with a guy she was dating last year because he called her gay friends âfagsâ and said they should all be put on an AIDS island,â he said. âShe told him to get lost.â
âThat kind of person is exactly why I worry about you telling people,â she said. âWhat do you thinkthat boy would have done if heâd known that, or even thought that, about you? He and his ignorant friends could decide to go after you, and how would you defend yourself?â
âWell,â Mike said, sounding much calmer than Garthâs mom; he almost sounded like the good-guy attorney on a TV drama, exploring all the angles of a situation, âhe could defend himself with words. He could be ready to say, âHey, guys, just look at me as one less man in competition for all those girls out there.ââ
âThat sounds like the perfect way to get into a fight,â she said. âHonestly, Mike, you donât know what youâre talking about.â
âTimes have changed.â
âThey havenât changed that much.â
âWell, Garth was telling me about this organization. Whatâs it called? Rosemary?â
âROSMY,â Garth said.
âThey apparently have all these services for teenagers and parents, and it sounds to me likeââ
âYou know what?â Garthâs mom said, the volume of her voice raising slightly. âYouâre not a parent. You donât know what itâs like to have an immediate family, lose half of it, and be worried about the safety of the other half. And I do. Soâ¦forgive me for puttingmy foot down, but I donât want to hear about ROSMY anymore. Iâm Garthâs mom, his only parent, and heâs my responsibility until heâs an adult.â
Garth looked at Mike, who was still staring down at what was left of his spaghetti, his mouth not grinning now but pursed. Was he irritated? Pensive? Regretting that heâd brought up the subject in the first place? He put his elbows on the table and folded his hands together over his plate. âActually,â he said in a softer voice, âI do know what itâs like to lose half my family. My dad passed away, so Iâve got my mom and my twin brother. Then my brotherâs suddenly gone. So I know what itâs like. But youâre right: Iâm not a parent. I just want whatâs best for Garth here.
Garth was still feeling grateful, but he also had the vague sensation of being an objectâlike a piece of furniture in an empty room, with two people standing over it, deciding where it should reside. Yet he thought Mike understood him better than his mom did, or at least was willing to acknowledge that the decision about where the piece of furniture was placed wasnât so obvious, soâ¦cut and dry. Neither Mike nor his mom was saying anything. He wanted to break the silence, so he said, âI want whatâs best for me, too.â
His mom cleared her throat, pushed up from herchair, and said, âThereâs ice cream, if anyone saved room for dessert.â
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His uncle stopped by his room that night, just as he was