immensely difficult to accomplish. You absolutely must avoid anything that will alarm her objections to entering the “exit only.”
You will perform a process of steps that demonstrate to her subconscious mind the pleasures of anal excitation without alarming her conscious mind’s objections to the “dirty deed.”
Distract the conscious with pleasure, closeness, and
fantasy.
Train the subconscious to associate sexual arousal to
anal stimulation.
One step at a time. . . .
This all happens over a course of several nights. You do this covertly. Your goal is your little secret.
Begin with stimulation of the BACK of the deep spot. Have her lie on her back. Use lots of Astroglide. With your palm facing down, use your middle finger to go in as deep as possible. Press your curled fingers hard against her to make sure you get your middle finger in as deep as possible. If you use enough Astroglide on your hand, your curled fingers will not pull on or irritate her skin. Curl the tip of your middle finger in a “come hither” manner as if to press hard against her tail bone. Repeat.
At this point, you are going to wish you worked out your forearms more often.
Continue curling the tip of your middle finger hard against her tailbone. As she starts getting close, her PC muscles will start to flex. It will feel like it is going to break your finger, but keep pressing on. This will produce a very powerful orgasm IN THE AREA that you want to TRAIN.
On another night, get her on her hands and knees and again stimulate the back of her deep spot until orgasm. This makes her more familiar with that type of orgasm in that position, the “doggy style” position.
Now you are ready to associate anal stimulation to sexual arousal.
On the next night, have her lie on her back. Sit on your knees between her legs. Lubricate your hands liberally with Astroglide. Lubricate her vagina as well. In fact, use enough so that some of the lubricant drips down on her anus.
Again rub the back of her deep spot. When she starts getting close to her orgasm, use your well lubricated pinky finger of your other hand and lightly press your pinky finger against her anus. Make sure there is lots of lubricant on her anus.
When she is about to come, press just the tip of your pinky finger into her anus. If she objects, stop stimulating her deep spot and assure her that you will be gentle, but do NOT remove your finger. Return to the stimulation of her deep spot. Since she is so close, that should be motivation enough for her to concentrate on her vaginal stimulation. Continue the stimulation until she orgasms. At the height of her
orgasm, slowly remove your pinky. This associates anal penetration to her orgasm.
Reward her with some good old fashioned love making and close emotional intimacy.
The next night, do this again. Rub the back of her deep spot. But this time, slide your pinky in when she starts getting aroused, don’t wait until she is close. And then, when she starts getting close, slide your pinky in up to the second joint. And just before she orgasms, gently slide your pinky out and back into her anus a few times. This associates sliding in her anus to her orgasm.
At this point, the subconscious has begun to associate anal stimulation with sexual arousal. So you have her subconscious mind on your side. Finish with good old fashioned love making.
To continue further, you are going to have to start to get her conscious mind engaged. But it must be done in such a way as to not raise an objection. This can be accomplished in a “hypothetical” situation, a situation that is possible, but that she wouldn’t actually do. Or, in other words, a fantasy.
In a fantasy, a woman can imagine that she is doing something that she would never “really” do, but can experience the situation anyway.
When she imagines it vividly in her mind, it’s as good as her actually doing it.
Fantasy is the perfect scenario for her “experiencing” anal sex
Lisa Mantchev, A.L. Purol