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without actually “doing” it. Once she experiences it in her mind, it will be much easier for her to experience it later “for real.”
    Using fantasy, you can magnify the excitement of an activity. And for a woman, the activities that are exciting are the ones that are naughty. Anal sex is just about as naughty as it gets.
    Have your woman get on her hands and knees and use lots of lubrication on your hands. Rub the back of her deep spot with one hand AND rub her clitoris with your other hand.
    Narrate a fantasy to her about how she is a very proper woman, but sometimes she is so very naughty. She is such a naughty little girl because she wants to get fucked so badly. (The usual kind of fuck.)
    And it makes her even more excited because she is being very naughty.
    For how to talk dirty, check out my audio CD The Art Of Sexy Dirty Talk .
    Continue the stimulation and the fantasy to get her close to an orgasm. Then take your middle finger out of her vagina and move it up to her anus. Continue the clitoral stimulation lightly. Here is the critical point.
    Change the fantasy to being about how she is so naughty that she wants to get even naughtier. She wants to get fucked in the ass. Carefully slide the tip of your middle finger into her anus.
    Continue the clitoral stimulation lightly so that she continues to receive sexual stimulation and remains sexually aroused.
    Tell her: “You are so naughty and you are so turned on, because you fantasize about me fucking you in the ass. You would never do that, but you get so turned on about the thought of me fucking you in the ass. You are being so naughty, because you are thinking such naughty thoughts. You get so fucking hot thinking about me fucking you hard in the ass.”
    Slowly slide your middle finger in a little deeper.
    “You get so fucking hot thinking about my hard cock buried deep in your ass.”
    Slowly slide your middle finger in and out of her ass. Continue the clitoral stimulation to insure that sexual stimulation remains associated to anal stimulation.
    “You fantasize about me fucking you hard up the ass. You get so fucking turned on thinking about my hard cock ramming your ass hard.”
    This is why it is critically important that you command respect with your woman. She absolutely must take what you say seriously. She must make what you say real in her mind.
    So long as it’s just a fantasy, she can go along with it. But because it is a fantasy, she must vividly imagine what you narrate.
    Continue the fantasy while you slowly slide your finger in and out of her anus. Continue the clitoral stimulation lightly.
    If her arousal increases, she is responding well to the anal stimulation. Slow down the clitoral stimulation and increase the anal stimulation.
    If she starts to get close to orgasm, take your finger away from her clitoris and continue the anal stimulation.
    If you really do command respect with your woman, your narration of the fantasy along with your finger in her ass will cause her to have an anal orgasm.
    The anal orgasm will blow her mind. She will not know exactly “how” she came, but she will know that she just had the most remarkable orgasm of her life.
    If you did not cause her to have an anal orgasm, stop before she gets sore. Slowly take your middle finger out.
    Whenever you take anything out of her anus, it is VERY important that you tell her to relax. She must NOT tighten up. That will make things much more difficult. It will make her irritated with it.
    If she ever tightens up, stop movement and remind her to relax. Do not continue movement until she relaxes her anus. When she relaxes on your command, she further trusts you and she learns that following your commands leads to her increased sexual pleasure.
    Sometimes it will feel as if she is having a bowel movement. That is all the wrong association. Anything you do with her anus must be done in the context of heightened sexual arousal. During sexual arousal, the mind interprets